"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what to do when women answer back to your C+F

just so suave

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i seen this girl alot at the shopping centre today, and she came up 2 me and said 'wow we keep seeing each other'
i answered with a c+f answer 'i no yeah, i need you to try and stop stalking me now please :)'

then she dropped the bomb 'haha i think its the other way around actualy :)'

i couldnt think of anything to counter this lol, any suggestions??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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COD

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SHEESH.........THE PURPOSE OF C & F IS TO GET THE CHIC INTERESTED..........like what does she have to do strip naked right then & there for you.........HINT HINT........SHE IS INTERESTED........

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO...........ummmm do U have a cell phone, do U have email, time constraint method my friend. Get da digits and split...........nuff said.

sheesh newbies!!!!!! It's like hey I need money and theres a 20 dollar bill on the ground, what should I do. DO WHAT U WANT TO DO.......go for it already.
 

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*shakes head in wonder*

Dude, the point of C+F is that she replies back playfully and challenges you. Thats what makes it interesting. If she just nodded or laughed nervously or something it would f*ck everything up if all you had was C+F, wouldn't it?

C+F shows that you're funny, confident, social and NOT AFRAID OF HER OR YOUR MANHOOD. This post displays the complete opposite.
 
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