"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to do when this happens...?

KillingTime

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What's the best thing to do when a chick has something she doesn't like about herself and mentions it? Happens quite a bit to me. For example this current girl I'm flirting a lot with tells me she's "so fat" and she "has flab" etc..... she really doesn't, I mean she just has really curvy features kinda like Beyonce or someone like that. But what do I do, say 'no your not" or playfully tease her about it? I feel better doing the second but just to be safe...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KillingTime

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"say watever you want and if she doesn't like it you don't need her".... PLEASE! A huge chunk of this forum is people just dishin out lines to say to girls and when to say them. Didn't say I needed her but the point is to attract, not push away and we all know certain behaviors do push away.
 

blienk

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Make a quick joke about it and change the subject.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TurboLover

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Her: "I'm Fat."
Me: "Mmm, pizza sounds really good about now, do you care to join me?"
 

cactus3178

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She says she's fat when she's not?

Fishing for compliments comes to mind...
 
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