"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to do when setting on the sofa?

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Hi ladies,

since I had a very unimaginatively date yesterday and don`t know what I could have done better, I`d like to ask what YOU would have done in this situation:

Just imagine....

... your sitting on a sofa with a nice girl that you really like and you got the feeling that she is interested, too, because otherwise she just wouldnt sit there beside you... it`s just you two in the room - just you two in your own flat. Your sitting on the left, the girl is on the right. There is a TV, but its muted - the remotecontrol lies besides you. From time to time the girl says "I`m cold", (maybe) becauce there is a window opend and cold air flies by. From time to time the girl says "I`m tired" and closes her eyes with her face directed to you. By the way: The bed is about 5 steps away...

Any ideas??

Regards
Bart
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Bart
Hi ladies,

since I had a very unimaginatively date yesterday and don`t know what I could have done better, I`d like to ask what YOU would have done in this situation:

Just imagine....

... your sitting on a sofa with a nice girl that you really like and you got the feeling that she is interested, too, because otherwise she just wouldnt sit there beside you... it`s just you two in the room - just you two in your own flat. Your sitting on the left, the girl is on the right. There is a TV, but its muted - the remotecontrol lies besides you. From time to time the girl says "I`m cold", (maybe) becauce there is a window opend and cold air flies by. From time to time the girl says "I`m tired" and closes her eyes with her face directed to you. By the way: The bed is about 5 steps away...

Any ideas??

Regards
Bart
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Argh...she didn't mean she's tired and wants to go to bed.

She meant that she's tired...of waiting for you to take the hint that when she says she's "cold" she wants you to warm her up.

What do you mean by an "unimaginitive date"? Bringing women up to your apartment just to watch a muted TV?? Yeah, that is pretty dull. :eek:
 
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Why didnt you take action? What do you think she was there with you? Obviously she enjoys you and your company, and wanted to get closer to you, how much is a question for you to find out soon .)
You should have just put your arm around her, start caressing her, and go for a kiss soon... Of do something playfull in the sofa with her like a small fight, something that involves a lot of contact and sudenly hold her hands, look her in the eyes, smile, kiss.
 
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