What to do when running into ex new boyfriend?

[bullethead]

Here's the story, I had friends with benefits with this girl for 2 months. I am pretty sure that I was the only guy in her life at that time as she was the only girl. And we mutually liked each other. I caught her making out with a friend of mine and told her that we were over. Long story short, I am over her, and know what to say to her (act like it did not bother me) but what do I do when I run into my friend? He knew I was friends with benefits with her and still pursued her. I feel like punching his face in. What should I do in the situation that I run into him and only him?

 

[PokerStar]

why do you want to punch this dude in the face? clearly this chcik your talking about aint worth it. ohhh i get it, she WAS your territory and he now is invading it.

you say you are over it but it seems to me that you are not.

my advice dont do anything. the best revenge is to live the better life. so grow up and be a man of many things.

 

[Mike32ct]

He's not a friend. He's a sausage vulture, like some random dude in the club. Just dump him by going no contact.

He doesn't deserve an explanation or one bit of your time. Arguing or fighting with him isn't going to bring your girl back. (Not sure you'd want her back after this anyway.)

But also understand that friends with benefits is usually an open type of relationship. You weren't dating per se, so she technically could fool around with other guys. But regardless, you never mess with a friend's girl, so dump this dude's as$. Then forget about this and move on.

 

[st_99]

I think he violated friend code. I've done it when I was younger and regretted it.

Sh!t happens though and its not really the end of the world or anything. Its not like he kicked your dog
and spit on your mom. Honestly, if you guys are good friends you 2 can maintain your friendship and laugh
about it in the future.

But if he's a total a-hole all the time then i'd reconsider your friendship.

 

[bullethead]

thanks guys. I do not want to be friends with this guy. But the hardest part would be avoiding him because in January the ex and this guy will be in the same building as me. I am going to run into him and the ex a lot. I am afraid that I might do something stupid when I see either of them.

 

[Iceberg]

thanks guys. I do not want to be friends with this guy. But the hardest part would be avoiding him because in January the ex and this guy will be in the same building as me. I am going to run into him and the ex a lot. I am afraid that I might do something stupid when I see either of them.

If you haven't done something stupid yet, I can't imagine how you'll do something stupid when you've had a month to cool down.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Dude just ignore them both. No eye contact, nothing, like you never even knew them. It's the holidays dont ruin yours. If he greets you solo don't be dramatic it makes you look weak. Give an over the top fake ass generic greeting with a thumbs up and be on your way.

On a side note if you do feel you have unresolved issues with the guy. Pick the time and place, don't just wait to run into him in front of people like that..

 

[J Roc]

i find it funny when guys fight over sluts.

 

[st_99]

i find it funny when guys fight over sluts.

fighting over sluts is just another afc trait. add it to the list.

 

[demezel]

ehhhhh? why are you even mad??? you said you guys were "friends" with benefits not into a relationship... you liked to fvck her, she liked getting fvck by you, nothing less, nothing more. or did you want to be in a relationship with her?? YOU knew she was a slut because chicks cant have sex many times with the same guy without feeling anything unless they re sluts.. even sluts have a dude they "like" the most so yeah you knew...

if it was me i wouldn't even care if she was kissing my friend, she is a slut friend that i fvck here and there no biggie, maybe it is just me because im already use to a chick nailing my friends and I and we just laugh it off when we see her, I know some guys might call me disgusting but again there is nothing better than big breast, a nice round ass and a girl screaming, moaning and sweating of pleasure in your bed , so yeah when i don't have anything to do i will call that "friend" with benefit and fvck her. Again she was not your girlfriend nor your wife, fighting over a slut is one of the biggest AFC's mistake on this planet.. A man was created and felt lonely, then god gave him a woman as a distraction to his loneliness......don't care if the bible is right or wrong but i agree with that message

 

[Jack Wealthy]

lolololol. Half of you guys are being homos. She's not a slvt, get a life. In a friends with benefits relationship it is fine to sleep around. If OP doesn't care about the other friendship then fine. Don't be a retard and fight over a girl when there are 3 and a half billion others you won't have too. Seriously, derp. That should make you feel like a huge chump, go for ten other girls. Finally, just smile like you've won the lottery. Let him see how awesomely happy you are, because of how awesome life is.

 

[zekko]

ehhhhh? why are you even mad??? you said you guys were "friends" with benefits not into a relationship... you liked to fvck her, she liked getting fvck by you, nothing less, nothing more. or did you want to be in a relationship with her?? YOU knew she was a slut because chicks cant have sex many times with the same guy without feeling anything unless they re sluts.. even sluts have a dude they "like" the most so yeah you knew...

I agree with this. If you were just FWBs, you had no claim on her. No more than if she was just a piece of meat to be passed around.

 

[bullethead]

I know I had no claim on her. It just hurts when seeing someone who was giving your a bj in the morning making out with some other guy at night.

 

[LittleBigOne]

I know I had no claim on her. It just hurts when seeing someone who was giving your a bj in the morning making out with some other guy at night.

Why does this idea hurt? Make a laugh about it by thinking that she didn´t brushed her teeth before kissing him!

 

[bullethead]

it hurts because the sex is gone and she choose the other guy over me