Hi all,
At lecture, there were some guys in the lecture all seated in front of me and towards the side checking out 'beautiful women' and saying 'ooh, she's hot!' in the lecture hall before the start of the lecture. i noticed a very beautiful women and I said 'I would like to marry a women like that one day'
to the person towards the side since he seemed a jovial, open guy, who I had a laugh with seconds earlier.
The guys looked at me and each-other and started smirking. They said 'why would she want to be with you?' and other things to suggest I'm not worth it or I'm in the inferior zone. I just shrugged it off.
I cannot explain why they said that, but I'm guessing because I'm 23 and I still have 2-3 years to go until I finish uni and all of them are 19-20 and have those fancy apple phones and they seem articulate people who look like the next bankers. Wereas I'm a mature student at uni and they think because I'm going to graduate at 25-26 and them 22-23 I am inferior to the competition. I'm also a bit reserved. Even then, why would they say that?
At lecture, there were some guys in the lecture all seated in front of me and towards the side checking out 'beautiful women' and saying 'ooh, she's hot!' in the lecture hall before the start of the lecture. i noticed a very beautiful women and I said 'I would like to marry a women like that one day'
to the person towards the side since he seemed a jovial, open guy, who I had a laugh with seconds earlier.
The guys looked at me and each-other and started smirking. They said 'why would she want to be with you?' and other things to suggest I'm not worth it or I'm in the inferior zone. I just shrugged it off.
I cannot explain why they said that, but I'm guessing because I'm 23 and I still have 2-3 years to go until I finish uni and all of them are 19-20 and have those fancy apple phones and they seem articulate people who look like the next bankers. Wereas I'm a mature student at uni and they think because I'm going to graduate at 25-26 and them 22-23 I am inferior to the competition. I'm also a bit reserved. Even then, why would they say that?
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