"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to do when gaming a girl for too long

themost suave

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This is my first post on sosuave. I'm in college and I would say that i'm pretty good at gaming girls. i can talk to most girls I meet and get them interested AND i can keep the conversation going for a while and the whole time they are interested.
Problem is when im at a party without a dance floor, i'm not sure what to do all the time. Obviously if there is a dance floor I take the girl there and its over.
But when there is no dance floor, after talking to a girl for haf an hour/45 min, I don't know what to do and she still is interested in the conversation

Can you guys help me out on my first post,
thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I just talk about random stuff and then when I can gives them some s**t about something i'll do it, and they usually love it and then i keep the conversation going and every few min i'll give them s**t about something else or the thing before. Its not very complicated but girls seem to love it

but my problem is what to do when there is no dance floor, how do i make the move to go for the kiss. Do i just go for it? Just do it?
 

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themost suave said:
Can you guys help me out on my first post,
thanks
You say you're at college? Do you live in the dorms? Do you have your own
place? Do you have a car? Throughout my college years, whenever I was at a
party and felt as if I was hitting it off really well with a girl, I would simply ask if she was hungry. 95% percent of the time she would say yes (drunk girls love food + she like's you = food run). Get taco's, take her back to wherever you stay, and eat her taco.

If you don't have a car, and you don't have a place to take her other then the party itself, I would look for a situation in which I could isolate her from the rest of the party. I don't care how you do it. A lot of time the girl I was talking to would have to use the bathroom. I'd go with, tell her I'd watch the door for her. You'd be shocked at how many times I was actually invited INTO the bathroom with her. And if not, when she was done, I would just pull her into the bathroom with me. Get creative. If you're holding a conversation for as long as you say you are, then it should take very little to actually get her alone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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