"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What to do when gaming a girl for too long

themost suave

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This is my first post on sosuave. I'm in college and I would say that i'm pretty good at gaming girls. i can talk to most girls I meet and get them interested AND i can keep the conversation going for a while and the whole time they are interested.
Problem is when im at a party without a dance floor, i'm not sure what to do all the time. Obviously if there is a dance floor I take the girl there and its over.
But when there is no dance floor, after talking to a girl for haf an hour/45 min, I don't know what to do and she still is interested in the conversation

Can you guys help me out on my first post,
thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just talk about random stuff and then when I can gives them some s**t about something i'll do it, and they usually love it and then i keep the conversation going and every few min i'll give them s**t about something else or the thing before. Its not very complicated but girls seem to love it

but my problem is what to do when there is no dance floor, how do i make the move to go for the kiss. Do i just go for it? Just do it?
 

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themost suave said:
Can you guys help me out on my first post,
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You say you're at college? Do you live in the dorms? Do you have your own
place? Do you have a car? Throughout my college years, whenever I was at a
party and felt as if I was hitting it off really well with a girl, I would simply ask if she was hungry. 95% percent of the time she would say yes (drunk girls love food + she like's you = food run). Get taco's, take her back to wherever you stay, and eat her taco.

If you don't have a car, and you don't have a place to take her other then the party itself, I would look for a situation in which I could isolate her from the rest of the party. I don't care how you do it. A lot of time the girl I was talking to would have to use the bathroom. I'd go with, tell her I'd watch the door for her. You'd be shocked at how many times I was actually invited INTO the bathroom with her. And if not, when she was done, I would just pull her into the bathroom with me. Get creative. If you're holding a conversation for as long as you say you are, then it should take very little to actually get her alone.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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