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Don Juan
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I'm currently in a relationship with a girl where conversation can feel a little forced sometimes. This is mostly on the phone though--when we're just together it's no problem. I've tried avoiding phone conversation, but it gets difficult when we don't see each other much in any classes.
Anyways, here's an example of when it feels forced. I get this semi-sick feeling in my stomach when it gets like this:
"Hey"
"Hey (pause)....what's going on?"
"(long pause, she's obviously trying to get something to say) My friend made me pissed off today (goes onto long story)"
At that point I just want to get off the phone. Normally, when we're physicall with each other, I can talk really easily with her. Just busting on her a bit, flirtatious banter, etc.
Should I just try to avoid the phone completely? Or are these awkward conversations just unavoidable sometimes?
Anyways, here's an example of when it feels forced. I get this semi-sick feeling in my stomach when it gets like this:
"Hey"
"Hey (pause)....what's going on?"
"(long pause, she's obviously trying to get something to say) My friend made me pissed off today (goes onto long story)"
At that point I just want to get off the phone. Normally, when we're physicall with each other, I can talk really easily with her. Just busting on her a bit, flirtatious banter, etc.
Should I just try to avoid the phone completely? Or are these awkward conversations just unavoidable sometimes?