What to do when another pua approaches your girl or your set?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

BlackEricNorthman

Don Juan

Jan 14, 2013

zekko said:
That's probably not bad advice for a girl you just met. Only thing is, that line is so old it screams "PUA! Mystery!" louder than The Cube does.

Well you can paraphrase the line I used (I wouldn't really say it like that. I'd probably use quite a bit more swearing and flagrant use of the N word), the general idea with my approach would be to humor the guy but don't play into a "pissing contest" with him. You want to treat the invading male as a "comical diversion" rather than "an obstacle that needs to be dealt with".

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.