What to do when another pua approaches your girl or your set?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

BlackEricNorthman

Don Juan

Jan 14, 2013

zekko said:
That's probably not bad advice for a girl you just met. Only thing is, that line is so old it screams "PUA! Mystery!" louder than The Cube does.

Well you can paraphrase the line I used (I wouldn't really say it like that. I'd probably use quite a bit more swearing and flagrant use of the N word), the general idea with my approach would be to humor the guy but don't play into a "pissing contest" with him. You want to treat the invading male as a "comical diversion" rather than "an obstacle that needs to be dealt with".

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.