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Scars

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Then what if she demands to see your latest comments and posts? Because that's what women do.

First off, there should be privacy in your relationship, no matter if it's serious or just FWB kind of thing. Which means what you do in your private time & space is your business, thus you should not have to explain anything to her as if you were a schoolchild caught watching porno movie.
Only a beta male would allow that. A simple "No" would be fine.

This is the equivalent of a girl demanding to see your activity history and messages on FB/IG. Alpha men would never allow this.

In OPs case, it sounds like the woman found out by snooping his history or search logs. He didn't "allow it", and he has no obligation to share his posts, username, or any of the sort. If a woman started snooping SS trying to find out my identity I would just say "Take a wild guess". But honestly, as soon as either party starts demanding the logins of social medias or wanting to read messages the relationship is over. There's no trust, just move on.
 

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Something smells rotten.

According to you, she's just an F-Buddy. Okay, fair enough, but do any of us give out our phone pass-word to an F-Buddy?
Something in your story isn't adding up.

And...

You claim that she knows that you are on this site. If she can read this posting, then why would you post this topic here?

Again, something about this particular posting isn't adding up.
she knew my passcode because when I lyed in bed next to her I used to unlock it, so she ended up finding out after a while. Not necessarily on here but YouTube on AMS, and here I don’t think she’ll remember this sites name to be honest nor care enough to come on here and checkpostings after 3 months of not seeing each other.
 

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I went to the toilet and the girl looked through my phone because she knew the passcode. And the first time a girl came over I forgot I had ams on my YouTube recommendations and got caught again. I felt like such as pleb.

do you think I lost value because of that?
Get a phone with a fingerprint reader.
 

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she knew my passcode because when I lyed in bed next to her I used to unlock it, so she ended up finding out after a while. Not necessarily on here but YouTube on AMS, and here I don’t think she’ll remember this sites name to be honest nor care enough to come on here and checkpostings after 3 months of not seeing each other.
I stand corrected (which isn't the first time that I've jumped the gun).
 

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Imagine guys hating on the girl for going on "Mumsnet" (or whatever the female equivalent of SS is) they would soon tell us to take a running jump..so do the same!
 

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so i have been caught before in the past about me watching arms on YouTube, that I go on suave and stuff like that. What would you guys do how would you behave, what would you say to the girl?
I'd say you are clumsy and you need your step your game up.
 

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Imagine guys hating on the girl for going on "Mumsnet" (or whatever the female equivalent of SS is) they would soon tell us to take a running jump..so do the same!
I think the female equivalent is "how to get men to give you money without putting out.com" or something like that.
 

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so i have been caught before in the past about me watching arms on YouTube, that I go on suave and stuff like that. What would you guys do how would you behave, what would you say to the girl?
Dont talk about fight club. Hide it better.
"Next"
 

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so women are equal to men.

But anytime a man needs masculine advice,cant get an erection, fails a trivial **** test, or needs help from a woman.

he is disqualified. god forbid a woman actually has to do something
 

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Find another one I never had a purchase books I have an awesome library here in Miami
 

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Tell her that the FBI controls the sites you usually attend so domestic terr..ehm ehm decided to move here after the attempt to communicate on redtube somehow failed.
 

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I went to the toilet and the girl looked through my phone because she knew the pass code.
Any chick pulls this BS you immediately dump and throw her out of your place. Immediate termination.

There is zero excuse for her to go through your phone without your permission.
 

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Then what if she demands to see your latest comments and posts? Because that's what women do.

First off, there should be privacy in your relationship, no matter if it's serious or just FWB kind of thing. Which means what you do in your private time & space is your business, thus you should not have to explain anything to her as if you were a schoolchild caught watching porno movie.
I don't get asked. My gf respects my privacy, and I have nothing to hide anyway. If a woman were to lose her sh!t over what I do or judge me for my actions then she can go find someone else to put up with her.
 

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Having a girl get access to your phone is a loser move. You shouldnt have told us that happened.
 
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