"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what to do...what to say

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my gf has been wanting me to stay home from my job for the last week. where i work, their are very few employees so calling in sick really screws them over. we are getting into fights everyday cuz she wants me to stay home one day this week. i tell her i cant. she gets mad saying i am choosing my job over her. i don't consider my job a career...i will leave one day. but i don't want to disapoint either one. what can i say to her to reassure her i love her but i cant just call in sick cuz she wants me too. or should i do it??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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making money n paying the billz is WAY more important than ANY chick for sure!...does she work?...any chick tat wants to block your money flow...needs to hit the door!
 
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Originally posted by realmz1
making money n paying the billz is WAY more important than ANY chick for sure!..
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Dude listen to me....Don't be a Wussy tell her you are obligated to make money. Get an attitude with her if you have too. You came to this site to gain confidence and gain self-control over this kind of thing only AFC's say "okay honey". BE A MAN!! BE A DON JUAN!!! Tell dat chick was on your mind and if she can't except that you shouldn't be with her PERIOD...
 
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Well is there some particular important reason why she wants you to stay home? If not then too bad for her.
 
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tell her you have a job and thats more important than hanging around all day doing nothing.

i would charm my way out of it, telling her that "honestly, i hate my job, but i'd much rather be there than having to be with you all day" *smiles*

but idk she seems a little too bytchy for that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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