"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what to do...what to say

Pakwah

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my gf has been wanting me to stay home from my job for the last week. where i work, their are very few employees so calling in sick really screws them over. we are getting into fights everyday cuz she wants me to stay home one day this week. i tell her i cant. she gets mad saying i am choosing my job over her. i don't consider my job a career...i will leave one day. but i don't want to disapoint either one. what can i say to her to reassure her i love her but i cant just call in sick cuz she wants me too. or should i do it??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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realmz1

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making money n paying the billz is WAY more important than ANY chick for sure!...does she work?...any chick tat wants to block your money flow...needs to hit the door!
 

MercutioTHEGREAT

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Originally posted by realmz1
making money n paying the billz is WAY more important than ANY chick for sure!..
I Agree


Dude listen to me....Don't be a Wussy tell her you are obligated to make money. Get an attitude with her if you have too. You came to this site to gain confidence and gain self-control over this kind of thing only AFC's say "okay honey". BE A MAN!! BE A DON JUAN!!! Tell dat chick was on your mind and if she can't except that you shouldn't be with her PERIOD...
 

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Well is there some particular important reason why she wants you to stay home? If not then too bad for her.
 

dannowillbookem

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tell her you have a job and thats more important than hanging around all day doing nothing.

i would charm my way out of it, telling her that "honestly, i hate my job, but i'd much rather be there than having to be with you all day" *smiles*

but idk she seems a little too bytchy for that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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