"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MooseGod

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I'm new on here, so hi everybody...

Anyway...I guess I'll start with a little background. Got out of a 1 1/2 year LTR a few months ago, (she wanted a ring...dodged a bullet there) and realized that while I won't miss the nagging, the whole not getting booty on a regular basis kinda sucks, so it's time to start getting to work. I met this extremely interesting and attractive chick through one of my roommates a couple days before classes started. We hit it off great from the first time we met, and had a couple of really good conversations (you know, politics, theology, philosophy, not just normal BS chit-chat)...plenty of IOIs, I didn't really try to come on too strong because the bud who introduced us told me she was dating some guy who lives in another town, but she never mentioned anything about a boyfriend...then classes start and I haven't really talked to her since, however she called me up to buy some wine for her and her roommates (she's 19, I'm 21) which kinda pissed me off because I felt a little used, but being the nice fellow I am I just rolled with it. Anyway, haven't really run into her on campus or at parties in the past couple weeks and she's not much of a Facebook addict. What should I do to try to get something going again? Or is it a lost cause?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MooseGod said:
I'm new on here, so hi everybody...

Anyway...I guess I'll start with a little background. Got out of a 1 1/2 year LTR a few months ago, (she wanted a ring...dodged a bullet there) and realized that while I won't miss the nagging, the whole not getting booty on a regular basis kinda sucks, so it's time to start getting to work. I met this extremely interesting and attractive chick through one of my roommates a couple days before classes started. We hit it off great from the first time we met, and had a couple of really good conversations (you know, politics, theology, philosophy, not just normal BS chit-chat)...plenty of IOIs, I didn't really try to come on too strong because the bud who introduced us told me she was dating some guy who lives in another town, but she never mentioned anything about a boyfriend...then classes start and I haven't really talked to her since, however she called me up to buy some wine for her and her roommates (she's 19, I'm 21) which kinda pissed me off because I felt a little used, but being the nice fellow I am I just rolled with it. Anyway, haven't really run into her on campus or at parties in the past couple weeks and she's not much of a Facebook addict. What should I do to try to get something going again? Or is it a lost cause?
This site really isn't about "how to get the only girl I'm interested in."

It's more about improving your game as a whole. Of course you should talk to her again. But your window of opportunity has already passed. You'll probably have to open a new one.

Read up on this site. There's plenty of good information.
 

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Dude I wouldnt buy her alchohol unless you want to get arrested shes under age, if you get caught your screwed, believe me no chick like that is worth it. Honestly it could work out I believe, it seems like she likes you from what you said.
 
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