"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what to do :S !?!?!?

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Okay here is the situation...

I've been out with that girl one day...She said to her friend that she likes me, and I like her too. But here's the situation. She had crush with one guy which is total jerk. She disrespects her and he is ignoring her...

I asked her if she would like to be my girlfriend. And she said that she's confused now, because that guy means a lot to her...WtF? He treats her like an animal and she still likes him?!?!? :(

She said that she's going to think about my question...Now I don't know what to say...what should I do next...what should I say to her...how to conveince her...please help guys... I'll aporiciate your help :D

byebye
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thank you for disrespecting me and everyone else who clicks on this thread by NOT reading the stickies and not reading the DJ bible. Then again, everybody else that stumbled here started like you so I guess I'll show patience.

This girl is not interested in you. If you wanted to fvck a chick, would you decline her offer to become exclusive?

There is no quick fix to your solution. The best you can hope for is to become the kind of person that attracts the kind of ladies you dream of. For that, you are at the right site. I suggest you take the time to use the search function and click on the DJ bible must reads. You'll find a link at the bottom of the main forum list.

Good luck on your journey. Don't post back until you're enlightened.
 
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Sorry about that I didn't mean to disrespect you :D


That girl is intersted in me and she likes me I talked to her friends and they said so...
 
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she may like you, but because this other bloke is ignoring her, which to most girls is a turn on, well sorta, because they are all attention seekers, she's thinking about him constantly because she wants his attention. She's trying to get his approval.

So either ditch her and find somebody who will dig you for your attention, or do something that will make her seek your approval. That's about all i know on the matter.
 
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she probably likes you, stick to the course. As for the jerk guy, this is a common situation, the never ending battle between DJs, jerks and nice guys, just prove to her that you are beter than him by showing you are a DJ, in time, she will see the true light, but in the mean time, dont tell her to stop liking him.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls are retarded like that. Whilst you may fixate on one girl, they can "like" many guys.

You're second in line behind this "jerk". I don't like being second, I'd move on.
 
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The other guy confuses her, He ignores her, but she takes some of his actions and because she wants him to like her she thinks he does sometimes. This confusion makes her think she cares about him.

Anyways, here is what you do. Stop talking to her. Move on. She is a ***** and isn't worth your time. Ignore her. Whatever you do, don't keep talking to her. I don't care what anyone says, you are a wuss. Next her my friend. Start meeting other girls. You got rejected, it doesn't matter about her friends or anything. Don't talk to her. Be an *******. If she is interested, you'll see her again. Continue to ignore her and she will continue to try to get you to focus on her. It is quite possibly the stupidest thing i've ever seen, but it's the way it is.
 
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Does this guy do ANYTHING with her at all?

If he does then yeah move on.

But I mean if he doesn't even know she exists then just go for it anyway. Of course she can like more than one guy.
 
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Guys, I highly suggest you re-read his post before suggesting for him to 'go for it'.

He asked her out. She said no.

Game over.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's not what I meant by asked out.

Are you being thick on purpose? She does NOT WANT YOU as her BOYFRIEND.
 
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