Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what to do :S !?!?!?

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Okay here is the situation...

I've been out with that girl one day...She said to her friend that she likes me, and I like her too. But here's the situation. She had crush with one guy which is total jerk. She disrespects her and he is ignoring her...

I asked her if she would like to be my girlfriend. And she said that she's confused now, because that guy means a lot to her...WtF? He treats her like an animal and she still likes him?!?!? :(

She said that she's going to think about my question...Now I don't know what to say...what should I do next...what should I say to her...how to conveince her...please help guys... I'll aporiciate your help :D

byebye
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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Thank you for disrespecting me and everyone else who clicks on this thread by NOT reading the stickies and not reading the DJ bible. Then again, everybody else that stumbled here started like you so I guess I'll show patience.

This girl is not interested in you. If you wanted to fvck a chick, would you decline her offer to become exclusive?

There is no quick fix to your solution. The best you can hope for is to become the kind of person that attracts the kind of ladies you dream of. For that, you are at the right site. I suggest you take the time to use the search function and click on the DJ bible must reads. You'll find a link at the bottom of the main forum list.

Good luck on your journey. Don't post back until you're enlightened.
 

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Sorry about that I didn't mean to disrespect you :D


That girl is intersted in me and she likes me I talked to her friends and they said so...
 

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she may like you, but because this other bloke is ignoring her, which to most girls is a turn on, well sorta, because they are all attention seekers, she's thinking about him constantly because she wants his attention. She's trying to get his approval.

So either ditch her and find somebody who will dig you for your attention, or do something that will make her seek your approval. That's about all i know on the matter.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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she probably likes you, stick to the course. As for the jerk guy, this is a common situation, the never ending battle between DJs, jerks and nice guys, just prove to her that you are beter than him by showing you are a DJ, in time, she will see the true light, but in the mean time, dont tell her to stop liking him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WesCottII

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Girls are retarded like that. Whilst you may fixate on one girl, they can "like" many guys.

You're second in line behind this "jerk". I don't like being second, I'd move on.
 

dankane

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The other guy confuses her, He ignores her, but she takes some of his actions and because she wants him to like her she thinks he does sometimes. This confusion makes her think she cares about him.

Anyways, here is what you do. Stop talking to her. Move on. She is a ***** and isn't worth your time. Ignore her. Whatever you do, don't keep talking to her. I don't care what anyone says, you are a wuss. Next her my friend. Start meeting other girls. You got rejected, it doesn't matter about her friends or anything. Don't talk to her. Be an *******. If she is interested, you'll see her again. Continue to ignore her and she will continue to try to get you to focus on her. It is quite possibly the stupidest thing i've ever seen, but it's the way it is.
 

Bvbidd

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Does this guy do ANYTHING with her at all?

If he does then yeah move on.

But I mean if he doesn't even know she exists then just go for it anyway. Of course she can like more than one guy.
 

LikRetsam

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Guys, I highly suggest you re-read his post before suggesting for him to 'go for it'.

He asked her out. She said no.

Game over.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LikRetsam

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That's not what I meant by asked out.

Are you being thick on purpose? She does NOT WANT YOU as her BOYFRIEND.
 
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