"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to do on bad weather days?

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On days were you can't go outside due to horrible weather, what do you guys do?

I go to the gym 3 times a week and work a lot but sometimes when on off days and I don't have to work or have anything to do, I just get bored and find myself in front of my laptop all day. I don't watch shows, but am busy with my music collection or read some books (on the screen).

What else can I do? I find being in front of my laptop all day brings me down and I don't know what else I can do. Normally when it's decent enough weather, I work outside in the garden, but now...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you have a garage? I hang out in my garage a lot in rainy weather. I work on my bikes, do projects, etc. I also work around the house - touch up painting, doing small improvements. And I play guitar. What are your hobbies?

That being said, get some decent weather gear and go for a run or bike ride in the rain. Totally resets my mood and day.
 
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Watch movies. Call friends to have some fun inside the house :)
 
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The only weather I'd refrain from going out is snow. Luckily don't get too much of that where I am at the moment. If its really cold I wrap up to keep warm and when its rainy I carry an umbrella. If you are an outdoors person you pretty much take in your stride but as an overall do prefer summers to winters.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jurry said:
Meditation.
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Are you serious? I don't mean this in a bad way, I've been looking into meditation/mindfulness too, but just can't seem to put my time into it as I guess don't believe it... Does it really work?
 
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Our mind and ego are very results/goal oriented, meditation is sort of the opposite of that. It seems odd to think of it in terms of "working" but it is effective for me if I had to put it that way.

I would recommend reading the power of now by eckhart tolle or anything by j krishnamurti.

There is a lot of overlap between becoming comfortable and settled with yourself and becoming comfortable and relaxed with women (and people in general).
 
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jurry said:
Our mind and ego are very results/goal oriented, meditation is sort of the opposite of that. It seems odd to think of it in terms of "working" but it is effective for me if I had to put it that way.

I would recommend reading the power of now by eckhart tolle or anything by j krishnamurti.

There is a lot of overlap between becoming comfortable and settled with yourself and becoming comfortable and relaxed with women (and people in general).
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Jurry supports western feminism. Disregard this person as a human being.
 
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