"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What to do next?

Paarth Shah

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Scenario:

Meet a girl on Tinder, got number quick, exchange texts, set up 1st date (coffee) which went well, at end of 1st date, I set up 2nd date for 3 days later. Unfortunately, I became a needy little ***** and decided to text her a little bit in between the two dates (she replied to all texts). On day of 2nd date, I send confirmation text in morning, she cancels saying she is sick. She didn't offer to reschedule but did ask "Can we do this another time?"

I wait 48 hours, send her "Hope you're feeling better" text to which she replies she is and wishes me a good week. I follow up with a witty comment and she replies but doesn't necessarily leave an avenue open for me to continue banter.

Question:

So, my dear friends, your guidance is much appreciated, what should I do?

Option 1: F*** her, find new girl.

Option 2: Try to continue with further witty / ****y&funny banter and set up a new date.

Option 3: Give her radio silence for another 48 hours and then resume as if nothing happened with goal to set up new date?

Thanks for your time and attention.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Murk

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Move on, she's low interest. First date (coffee) she wasn't feeling it. If she was she would be asking to see you ASAP which happens to me, but that is a turn off for me. Anyway move on, stop clinging on to nothingness. When you guys come across a girl legit on your d!ck, remember it, that is how interested girls act.
 
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