"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to do next?

Paarth Shah

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Scenario:

Meet a girl on Tinder, got number quick, exchange texts, set up 1st date (coffee) which went well, at end of 1st date, I set up 2nd date for 3 days later. Unfortunately, I became a needy little ***** and decided to text her a little bit in between the two dates (she replied to all texts). On day of 2nd date, I send confirmation text in morning, she cancels saying she is sick. She didn't offer to reschedule but did ask "Can we do this another time?"

I wait 48 hours, send her "Hope you're feeling better" text to which she replies she is and wishes me a good week. I follow up with a witty comment and she replies but doesn't necessarily leave an avenue open for me to continue banter.

Question:

So, my dear friends, your guidance is much appreciated, what should I do?

Option 1: F*** her, find new girl.

Option 2: Try to continue with further witty / ****y&funny banter and set up a new date.

Option 3: Give her radio silence for another 48 hours and then resume as if nothing happened with goal to set up new date?

Thanks for your time and attention.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Murk

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Move on, she's low interest. First date (coffee) she wasn't feeling it. If she was she would be asking to see you ASAP which happens to me, but that is a turn off for me. Anyway move on, stop clinging on to nothingness. When you guys come across a girl legit on your d!ck, remember it, that is how interested girls act.
 
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