"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys so I just got a text saying she's sick & can't make the date tonight. So either she's really sick or just flaking. Now how long should I wait before I make contact with her( on the phone) to set up another one. I was thinking in about 4-5 days from now. Any suggestions? also should I reply to her text & tell her "hope you feel better" or just wait till next week & call her up. Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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luv 2 fly said:
Hey guys so I just got a text saying she's sick & can't make the date tonight. So either she's really sick or just flaking. Now how long should I wait before I make contact with her( on the phone) to set up another one. I was thinking in about 4-5 days from now. Any suggestions? also should I reply to her text & tell her "hope you feel better" or just wait till next week & call her up. Thanks
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Go ahead and send her a text back saying,"OK,no problem. I'll talk to you later".

Then go the next 4 to 5 days of not contacting her.


If you don't hear from her after 4 days,then CALL HER up,and suggest another date. If she gives you another excuse,then drop her.


If she agrees,then bam,you've got yourself a date.






Now...if she contacts you before that time is up,go ahead and talk with her....but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT GOING OUT,OR SEEING HER.





Just talk with her,see what she's been up to,ask her if she's feeling better,and end the convo as fast as you can,then GET AWAY FROM HER.




The reason you're doing this is to see if SHE'LL BRING UP you two going out.



We already know you like her,so we need to see if she likes you,or if she's just after attention. So don't bring up you two going out,and stay out of her presense. Just be "polite" when you talk with her. "Polite",not interested.



Check out the info in my signature,it goes more into detail about what you should do.
 
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sounds good!! I was going to do something along those lines...thanks
 
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