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[luv 2 fly]

Hey guys so I just got a text saying she's sick & can't make the date tonight. So either she's really sick or just flaking. Now how long should I wait before I make contact with her( on the phone) to set up another one. I was thinking in about 4-5 days from now. Any suggestions? also should I reply to her text & tell her "hope you feel better" or just wait till next week & call her up. Thanks

 

[luv 2 fly]

Bump

 

[Igetit!]

Hey guys so I just got a text saying she's sick & can't make the date tonight. So either she's really sick or just flaking. Now how long should I wait before I make contact with her( on the phone) to set up another one. I was thinking in about 4-5 days from now. Any suggestions? also should I reply to her text & tell her "hope you feel better" or just wait till next week & call her up. Thanks

Go ahead and send her a text back saying,"OK,no problem. I'll talk to you later".

Then go the next 4 to 5 days of not contacting her.


If you don't hear from her after 4 days,then CALL HER up,and suggest another date. If she gives you another excuse,then drop her.


If she agrees,then bam,you've got yourself a date.






Now...if she contacts you before that time is up,go ahead and talk with her....but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT GOING OUT,OR SEEING HER.





Just talk with her,see what she's been up to,ask her if she's feeling better,and end the convo as fast as you can,then GET AWAY FROM HER.




The reason you're doing this is to see if SHE'LL BRING UP you two going out.



We already know you like her,so we need to see if she likes you,or if she's just after attention. So don't bring up you two going out,and stay out of her presense. Just be "polite" when you talk with her. "Polite",not interested.



Check out the info in my signature,it goes more into detail about what you should do.

 

[luv 2 fly]

sounds good!! I was going to do something along those lines...thanks