"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what to do next? need advice please

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Hello guys so I have meet a girl i tried to call but she didn't pick up the phone. I waited for 2 day after i called her and text her again
Asked how is she doing she text back with a question how was i doing so I text her back after 20 min.
After that there wasn't any texting going on between us till the second day. So I decide to text her to ask for a coffee with me. And she said "Yes! If I'm back ofcourse." Because she's back home in other state.
We are college student. I'm wondering What should I do next? Should I ask her when will she be back? Or just text her back with just "cool" or something like than so that it doesn't look like I'm pushing her??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ask her when she'll be back. If she's interested its really just a normal conversation. If she ignores it, she prob wouldn't go through with plans anyway.
 
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It is very healthy to have a infant mentality. And I have found the best way to abundant is to have options and many of then. Abundant of girls. And it seems like you are a starter. If you don't feel like doing approaches yet, you can start from something easier. Something like online messaging. You can try online sites or simply go to Instagram, get some cute girls' kik and kik them. Since you are in college, looks matter very much. So have a hot or even a model-like picture. You will see a whole different styl of text you receive once try k ow you are good looking wih value. And by value, I mean options. You might feel like it is disturb you that you are not fair with this one girl, but they're is no need to feel so. It is normal to date multiple woman, at least why they are teaching here. But I can understand completely if you feel like cheating if you go and date multiple girls. It depends on your level of understanding. Report back what happens.
 
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i tried to call but she didn't pick up the phone. I waited for 2 day after i called her and text her again
Asked how is she doing she text back with a question how was i doing

low interest^

I would not put effort into this one. Go date girls who have a real interest in you man. If you currently do not have this type of girls in your life.....find them.
 
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Yeah thanks for the reply.I feel the same way so I have decide to not say anything if she is interest then she should ask me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jaszhu said:
Yeah thanks for the reply.I feel the same way so I have decide to not say anything if she is interest then she should ask me
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Sometimes I read stuff on this board & I'm like "WTF is this guy serious?!" This isn't completely one of those moments, but its close.

Realize something.

When you first meet a girl, the chances of her being totally head over heels into you are not likely, UNLESS she is highly physically attracted to you.

What usually ends up happening is if she has ENOUGH interest to give you her contact info and go out with you on a couple dates, then her interest in you SHOULD rise significantly IF you know what your doing (attraction, showing your value, building comfort etc).

Also and this is just reality nowadays, in the beginning MOST girls will not take your phone calls. Text is what every girl is all about. Yes some girls will text with you all day & have no intention of going out with you, however those are girls you should weed out quickly.

I wouldn't say this girl has LOW INTEREST in you, as much as I would say she is UNDECIDED on you at this point & that's pretty normal this early in the game.

Unless you have an idea of when she will be back, I would text her back and ask her when she's going to be back home. Then cut the conversation soon after and hit her up down the line when she's in town and re-establish that connection.

Then hit her up and go from there. Remember women are emotional, they go off feeling and those feelings can change quickly when they are unsure about a guy.

As long as you don't chump it and contact her too much and continue to meet more girls, I am willing to bet she will be down to hang out with you when she gets back.










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ignore her. if she texts back ok if she doesnt then NEXT>
 
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