"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to do, little bit of an AFC question

S.Y.L

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Hey, so last week at a party, I was basically talking to this chick and trying to game her. I didn't get to make out or anything, but she had her arm around me and I was touching her ass and stuff, so we had a bit of physical contact. She didn't wanna go any further because she had to legitimately leave in an hour, and that we were both almost drunk (had a few drinks each, so tipsy really)

Now she said she would add me on facebook when we were both a little bit tipsy from drinking, but she never did. Her friend did though, and tagged me in a few pics with her, so she would have seen my name in em.This was last monday, so she would have plenty of time to do it. I will probably see her in a few weeks at the next time my friend has a party, so I will get her then.

Should I:

1. Add her on facebook, because she didn't. Or does this seem too desperate, and if she wanted to add me, she would have by now.

2. Don't add her on facebook, and just wait until the next party.


I know that I am over-analyzing this, and that this is a worthless thread, but I can't decide lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She wasnt that wasted, we had like 3, 4 tops drinks each, so we were obviously tipsy, but not like completely ripped.
 

pjtheman

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but still, do what captain saysand get her number if you see her again
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah, I'll get her number next time, I honestley just forgot last time lol
 
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