"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What to do, little bit of an AFC question

S.Y.L

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Hey, so last week at a party, I was basically talking to this chick and trying to game her. I didn't get to make out or anything, but she had her arm around me and I was touching her ass and stuff, so we had a bit of physical contact. She didn't wanna go any further because she had to legitimately leave in an hour, and that we were both almost drunk (had a few drinks each, so tipsy really)

Now she said she would add me on facebook when we were both a little bit tipsy from drinking, but she never did. Her friend did though, and tagged me in a few pics with her, so she would have seen my name in em.This was last monday, so she would have plenty of time to do it. I will probably see her in a few weeks at the next time my friend has a party, so I will get her then.

Should I:

1. Add her on facebook, because she didn't. Or does this seem too desperate, and if she wanted to add me, she would have by now.

2. Don't add her on facebook, and just wait until the next party.


I know that I am over-analyzing this, and that this is a worthless thread, but I can't decide lol.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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She wasnt that wasted, we had like 3, 4 tops drinks each, so we were obviously tipsy, but not like completely ripped.
 

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but still, do what captain saysand get her number if you see her again
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, I'll get her number next time, I honestley just forgot last time lol
 
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