That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I have zero interest in ever going to Las Vegas, but that was one nice breakdown of the town. Most try to be funny or tie sex into everything. That gets so old. This post was to the point and easy to read. I am stunned to have run across it. Good Job even if your tastes are very different from mine!mastacheef said:i live here in Vegas, im only 18 so keep that in mind, but there is a ton of a stuff you can do..
you can:
-gamble
(you can score free drinks all night at any casino as long as your sitting at a slot machine haha)
-go clubbing/bar hopping
(i recommend checking out The Palms casino and The Mandalay Bay, my favorites)
-eat food
(the food is amazing here, you can find anything and everything you desire. For fun places to eat i'd check out ****'s Last Resort at the Excalibur, i like it there because its a fun live atmosphere and you can literally throw napkin balls at anyone and everyone.. so much fun and the food is decent, and they usually have a live house band playing.)
- see a show
(there are numerous shows at different casinos, they usually aren't too cheap but well worth the money, I recommend any Cirque du Soleil show, these shows are amazing, crazy acrobatic stunts and such.. if you have seen the movie Knocked Up, you have seen what its like when they were on shrooms haha *i liked KA at MGM Grand* and i recently heard LOVE was great at Treasure Island, its a Beatles themed show)
- walk the strip
(walking the strip is probably the most fun out of all, anything can happen, its fun to people watch and just have fun)
- shopping
(there are numerous shopping outlets in Vegas, check out the Fashion Show Mall, its across the street from The Wynn, also check out the forum shops at Ceaser's Palace and they also have some shops at the Venetian. They recently changed a hotel from The Aladdin to Planet Hollywood, I haven't been there since but they did have shops located there when it was called The Aladdin)
- rides
(they have a few rides here in vegas, The New York New York roller coaster is always a must, check out the Circus Circus Adventure Dome, its the big pink/purple glass dome looking thing, they use to have a water park here but they closed it down a few years ago, so sad, they have a booster roller coaster at The Sahara which is alright and my favorite is the Big Shot at the top of the Stratosphere (the tall needle point building, its not hard to miss)
im sure theres alot of things i'm missing but if you have any more questions let me know!
thank youmeitenesrigas said:I have zero interest in ever going to Las Vegas, but that was one nice breakdown of the town. Most try to be funny or tie sex into everything. That gets so old. This post was to the point and easy to read. I am stunned to have run across it. Good Job even if your tastes are very different from mine!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.