You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I have zero interest in ever going to Las Vegas, but that was one nice breakdown of the town. Most try to be funny or tie sex into everything. That gets so old. This post was to the point and easy to read. I am stunned to have run across it. Good Job even if your tastes are very different from mine!mastacheef said:i live here in Vegas, im only 18 so keep that in mind, but there is a ton of a stuff you can do..
you can:
-gamble
(you can score free drinks all night at any casino as long as your sitting at a slot machine haha)
-go clubbing/bar hopping
(i recommend checking out The Palms casino and The Mandalay Bay, my favorites)
-eat food
(the food is amazing here, you can find anything and everything you desire. For fun places to eat i'd check out ****'s Last Resort at the Excalibur, i like it there because its a fun live atmosphere and you can literally throw napkin balls at anyone and everyone.. so much fun and the food is decent, and they usually have a live house band playing.)
- see a show
(there are numerous shows at different casinos, they usually aren't too cheap but well worth the money, I recommend any Cirque du Soleil show, these shows are amazing, crazy acrobatic stunts and such.. if you have seen the movie Knocked Up, you have seen what its like when they were on shrooms haha *i liked KA at MGM Grand* and i recently heard LOVE was great at Treasure Island, its a Beatles themed show)
- walk the strip
(walking the strip is probably the most fun out of all, anything can happen, its fun to people watch and just have fun)
- shopping
(there are numerous shopping outlets in Vegas, check out the Fashion Show Mall, its across the street from The Wynn, also check out the forum shops at Ceaser's Palace and they also have some shops at the Venetian. They recently changed a hotel from The Aladdin to Planet Hollywood, I haven't been there since but they did have shops located there when it was called The Aladdin)
- rides
(they have a few rides here in vegas, The New York New York roller coaster is always a must, check out the Circus Circus Adventure Dome, its the big pink/purple glass dome looking thing, they use to have a water park here but they closed it down a few years ago, so sad, they have a booster roller coaster at The Sahara which is alright and my favorite is the Big Shot at the top of the Stratosphere (the tall needle point building, its not hard to miss)
im sure theres alot of things i'm missing but if you have any more questions let me know!
thank youmeitenesrigas said:I have zero interest in ever going to Las Vegas, but that was one nice breakdown of the town. Most try to be funny or tie sex into everything. That gets so old. This post was to the point and easy to read. I am stunned to have run across it. Good Job even if your tastes are very different from mine!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.