What to do in a threesome?

[SamePendo]

What do you do in a threesome?
I mean, I guess it's not the same as being with one, because you don't want to give ALL your attention just to one of them, or take turns, dunno.
What do you do?

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

SamePendo, most guys here have never been with two women in their whole lives, let alone two women at the same time. I'm gonna have to say you came to the wrong place for this.

 

[Quiksilver]

holy **** dude, I just came on to ask this.

I've been in two 3some situations, one a while back and one very recently. I'm having problems maintaining their interest and it gets awkward after several minutes.

Like, the first time was alright, had a girl and her friend on a couch making out. I didn't fvck either of them but lets just say my hands were busy, as were theirs

I tried to take it further but one of the girls lost interest and made it really awkward.

The second time, last weekend actually, it was pretty much the same situation except on the edge of a bed. One of them was a little bit drunk so I didn't even try to fvck her, just made out and she gave me head. Again, had their tops off, they were both diggin it, giggling like school girls. I managed to slip a rubber on and start with one of the girls(the less attractive one, but whatever, she wasn't drunk). the problem is the other girl just left the room and it was a major buzzkill. The first girl was like wtf, put her clothes on and went to talk to her friend.

I don't know if its just me, but it seems that unless one--or both-- of the girls are bisexual, its too hard to juggle them both at once.

Anyone with experience, it would be helpful.

thanks

 

[TheVirtualMind]

http://www.ehow.com/how_2173633_threesome-single-male-two-female.html

 

[Señor Fingers]

A threesome only works when the two girls are really into each other AND you. It's a difficult balance to strike, and I've only had one good experience come of it... but even then it didn't live up to the hype.

Some tips:

• Make sure the girls are hot for each other
• Make sure none of them are your steady GF!!
• Tequila shots are a big help
• Learn some basic positions:

http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/threespos.html

Maybe you guys will have more fun than I did.. Guess I'm just old fashioned, but I find 1-on-1 to be the more enjoyable experience. There is no pressure to perform and you get to focus all your attention on one person..there is more of a connection happening.

Can't front though, a double BJ is pretty sweet

 

[armadon]

I blew my wad in like 5 seconds so I couldn't tell you.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I meant to post here, but accidentally bumped this thread instead, 3som stuff:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115104

 

[Latinoman]

I don't think it is masculine to have two women in front of you making out.

I think the masculine way for a threesome is for the man to have sex with BOTH women. No "homosexuality" (two women going at each other because the man needs a "break" - that's weak and whimpy)...but a MAN giving both of them what they need? That's in my view a Threesome and the only type I have ever been involved.

The secret is to please both...your c_ck in one (she rides you) and your mouth in the other (inner thighs or mouth or breasts). And switch them around. If you lack the stamina or control to do those things...then you are not in any condition to be trying two satisfy two women.

 

[MacAvoy]

Ok I'll chime in. I've had multiple 3somes and gang bangs. First and foremost, your wasting your time and likely going to ruin a relationship if you attempt it in a LTR.

Whatever you do, don't follow this advice

http://www.ehow.com/how_2173633_threesome-single-male-two-female.html

Its so easy to actually make happen, you just have to be alpha. Don't ask, JUST DO IT. However as Senor pointed out, 1 on 1 sex is actually better than a 3some, however 3 somes are fun for the mental / confidence aspect. It will give you a tonne more confidence when you know you can treat a women like a piece of meat and make her do whatever you want.

Just take charge and make it happen whenever you are around multiple women. If both are attracted to you, and they ain't prudes they will follow your command.

Here is a FR that I made of one 3 some I had

 

[joekerr31]

ive never done a 3 some, but the only way i can imagine it working out well is if you took total command.

so if you basically acted like a porno director and bossed them around. otherwise you've got a really strange dynamic where everyone is thinking too much about what they are suppose to be doing.

so maybe try being like ...

'ok sally, suck fran's p*ssy and i'm goign to bang the sh*t out of you. Ohhh ya, you like watching me bang fran, sally? blah blah blah'

because if you don't direct it, i would imagine that women would just turn in to giggly air heads (typically how women are around each other when men are around).

 

[6-heads lewis]

First thing you'll have to do is improve your flexibility. If you go at it wrong, you could seriously hurt your back and neck. For the next 2 weeks lay low and just do daily stretching, and get comfortable with the position. The classic position is legs over head against the wall, then sort of walk down the wall, and bend forward.

Within a few weeks you should be able to reach the tip of your penis with your tongue. You can then use your non-dominant hand to jerk off, and your dominant hand to finger your own butt hole.

Threesomes are great, but make sure to not hurt yourself, it's not THAT great.

 

[Aboleo]

I don't think it is masculine to have two women in front of you making out.

I think the masculine way for a threesome is for the man to have sex with BOTH women. No "homosexuality" (two women going at each other because the man needs a "break" - that's weak and whimpy)...but a MAN giving both of them what they need? That's in my view a Threesome and the only type I have ever been involved.

The secret is to please both...your c_ck in one (she rides you) and your mouth in the other (inner thighs or mouth or breasts). And switch them around. If you lack the stamina or control to do those things...then you are not in any condition to be trying two satisfy two women.

I'm with you on this one.

I've also had a couple experiences and both were pretty sorry in comparison with more intimate, one-on-one, male to female intercourse. I'm not into homosexuality on any level and for this to "work" someone pretty much has to be with our culture the way it is nowadays. This is the reason why I'll probably never do it again, as I did it for all the wrong reasons to start with-- bragging rights.

It just isn't all that likely that two straight women (if you're lucky enough to find even one) are going to want to **** you at the same time.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I've been in two threesomes. One was awkward because I was in a relationship with a woman and she wanted to "experiment" with a waitress at the restaurant we worked at. We opened with booze and quite a bit of mary jane to help lighten the mood and it started off well.

Until-

Waitress friend started to get frisky with the K-man and the GF was none too happy about it. I didn't attempt to stop the FB from enjoy the K0ck but it definitely put a bridge between the GF and I. She was out on her can a few days later anyway.

Second I was the FB with a guy I worked with and his wife. No funny business between me and my colleague but we definitely fulfilled all of his wife's desires to the fullest :crazy: .

It's critical to seperate the emotional aspect and the pleasurable aspect of the act. If this seperation is made and all involved are mature enough to understand and appreciate any boundaries involved it can be a wonderful and memorable experience.

Sadly though, most people both men and women, cannot commit to themselves the proper boundary respect before diving headfirst into a miasma of flesh.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

The most important thing in a threesome is that it has to be, or seem like it's the idea of the girl(s) involved at first. Extremely rare is the guy who can convince 2 women to be into each other AND him. Women KNOW this is every guys fantasy, so there has to be something in it for them too.

 

[MacAvoy]

The most important thing in a threesome is that it has to be, or seem like it's the idea of the girl(s) involved at first. Extremely rare is the guy who can convince 2 women to be into each other AND him. Women KNOW this is every guys fantasy, so there has to be something in it for them too.

I strongly disagree. However the above reasoning is true for 3somes in a LTR. They fail because of the above. Every time I've had a threesome, it was because I took charge or in an orgy scenario, it was a man who took charge.

It all goes back to the original attraction principles. Women want MEN. Men that take charge and whisk them off their feet. Its just a little harder to do so with 2 women. Generally the 2nd women has to be a little submissive because generally both women don't have the same attraction level / role with the guy.

 

[Quiksilver]

So the only way to make it work is to be more controlling and dominant?

 

[MacAvoy]

Quik, I'm not saying its the only way but its the only way I've seen it work.