What to do if she breaks up with you...(winning her back)

[donpepot]

yeah it will be one of the reason for getting her back but its not enough

 

[thekhris]

When she breaks up im acting like i never knew her before and not even like her at all, dont find nice lookin either. It kills them.

agree

 

[no.name10452]

Here's a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is
breaking up with you.


1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates
tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.
Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.

2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should
come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No
matter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leave
you.

3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so
things will be "different from now on". It's like trying to
bail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole is
still there and your words are not going to mend it.

4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't
care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...not
the other way around!)

5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the
more she will ignore you.

6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.
(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up
with me during exam period...") It won't work. It will only
make her DREAD being with you even more.

7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.
Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!

8) Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All
she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you,
they can't make her love you forever. External pressure never
lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation
has to come from WITHIN.

9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You
can't buy her heart back with money.

10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more
you push, the more she will PULL AWAY.

These are the most common mistakes guys make during a
breakup. Trust me, you don't want to do ANY of these things.
If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed.
You probably won't even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend
goodbye, let alone get her back.


WHAT TO DO

1.Be polite
2.BE indifferent
3.Show to her that you can live without her and your having fun and you have a life and surviving without her.
4.Ignore her
5.Your time now is for other people and things not for her
6.Dont be rude or do somthing signifies that your in pain like anger or hate.
7.Flirt with other girl BUT THIS IS OPTIONAL...if your gonna do this make it sure that it will not seem that your just making her jelous..remeber the point here is to make her realise that you can still continue to live withouot her and have fun and you dont give a fck if she dumps you..
8.Dont try to be friends
9.Don’t be taken for granted
10.Don’t try to seduce them
11.Just cut them off and get on with your life
12.make their decisions final
13.Be patient and wait for her next move but for the meanwhile keep doing all the above statements.

When she contact

1.be polite
2.be indifferent
3.show to her that your time is not for her
4.cut her calls short
5.Be patient and wait for her next move.
6. Say to her or show to her through your actions that "NO HARD FEELINGS"

when she cry or says she misses you or do somthing that sugest she cant afford to loose you or trying to be friends

1.Continue to back off
2.be a challenge
3.Accept her only of your truely conviinced that she will do anything just to give her another chance.
4.be polite still
5.Be patient and wait for her next move


whe you take her back
1.donr EVER BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED
2.PUT THE BLAME ON HER
3.Do so on your own terms

After a big fight, now what?
hello, i had a really big fight with my girlfriend, and i told her things i shouldnt have said. now we broke up, and she is dating someone else, she blocked me on whatsapp/facebook, maybe she is not going to speak with me again, but i want to know what should i do in the meanwhile coz i really love her and we were together for 1.5 year, and we were about to get married.
i know i screwed it out, and i really regret it. i sent her messages and sms and mails but always no answers. not even answering my calls. please i need a good advice, i dont want to move on with my life without her, coz she is my everything

 

[Wolfgang D]

After a big fight, now what?
hello, i had a really big fight with my girlfriend, and i told her things i shouldnt have said. now we broke up, and she is dating someone else, she blocked me on whatsapp/facebook, maybe she is not going to speak with me again, but i want to know what should i do in the meanwhile coz i really love her and we were together for 1.5 year, and we were about to get married.
i know i screwed it out, and i really regret it. i sent her messages and sms and mails but always no answers. not even answering my calls. please i need a good advice, i dont want to move on with my life without her, coz she is my everything

I understand that it feels hard. We all experience this, and it is not fun. Unfortunately, what Donpepot writes is true, you cannot win her back by contacting her over and over. All you can do is give her space. Only then will she get some distance from the fight, and maybe realize that she misses you. If she doesn't, there is nothing you can do.

The wisest advice I got regarding a partner breaking up with you is this: when she breaks up you can't argue for your cause, and you can't insist that you will change. If she would give in to your promises, she knows things will just stay the same between you, because she gave up and came back.

So you have to show that you accept her reasons for breaking up, by staying silent and keeping your distance like she wants you to do. Only then can she possibly come back.

Whether the relationship will start over again or not, you should also try to see other women. Even if you have no interest in pursuing a relationship with them, and even if it is nothing more than just brief flirting. Even this brief contact will show you that there are more women out there, and give you some perspective on the situation. You might still want your ex back, but you will want her back with a better perspective.

Right now your situation is like when you have a song stuck in your head, an "ear worm" that is playing over and over. The only way to get rid of the song is to listen to other songs. Same with an ex; the only way to stop thinking of her constantly is to talk to other women.

 

[TheVirtualMind]

WHAT TO DO IF A GIRL BREAKS UP WITH YOU
THE MANUAL

CHAPTER 1

Find a new one.


THE END.​

1st revision to said book:

Chapter 1.

Spin as many plates as you have fingers and toes.

THE END

Both of these. See, they are even in "e-book" form already.

She ditches, she hitches. :kick: