"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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What to do if a group of people are laughing at you?

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So i was parking my car today and walking back to my building when a car full of 4 people driving through the parking lot, at least 3 girls maybe one guy, started staring and laughing at me. I didn't know what to do because I didn't even know what they were laughing at me for. They were definitely talking about me and it wasn't a positive kind of thing. Should I just have pretended they werent there? It kind of made me feel like ****. How do I shrug something like this off?
 

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Do something silly to show them you're not bothered!
 

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Do something silly to show them you're not bothered!
Nah...you're nobody's clown.

Maybe your fly was down or something goofy like that. I'd want in on the joke, and if they were just being asses and didn't have a legit reason to laugh, I'd then just shut them out.

People find strange reasons to laugh. It's only at "your expense" if you let it be.
 

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Aspiring_DJ said:
So i was parking my car today and walking back to my building when a car full of 4 people driving through the parking lot, at least 3 girls maybe one guy, started staring and laughing at me. I didn't know what to do because I didn't even know what they were laughing at me for. They were definitely talking about me and it wasn't a positive kind of thing. Should I just have pretended they werent there? It kind of made me feel like ****. How do I shrug something like this off?
Just curious....Were they negroes? They tend to that when they outnumber their assailant 4 to 1 or more.
 

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mahon83050 said:
Just curious....Were they negroes? They tend to that when they outnumber their assailant 4 to 1 or more.
You're an idiot..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mahon83050 said:
Just curious....Were they negroes? They tend to that when they outnumber their assailant 4 to 1 or more.
WTF!!! :cuss:

You are obviously a retard or something.
 

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How do I shrug something like this off?
By working on yourself and your weaknesses and thus becoming almost immune to it (what you believe in yourself is the most important thing).

Your weaknesses appear to be fearing of being judged and poor body image. Now go and work on it.
 

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mahon83050 said:
Just curious....Were they negroes? They tend to that when they outnumber their assailant 4 to 1 or more.
LOL...re-read the post. I think he could've taken "at least three girls and maybe one guy". :crackup:

And why the hell do people keep posting their questions in Tips? I feel like a broken record.
 

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LOL...re-read the post. I think he could've taken "at least three girls and maybe one guy". :crackup:

And why the hell do people keep posting their questions in Tips? I feel like a broken record.
Well, when I had this happen to me and friend once. It was 2-3 black girls and maybe like 1-2 black guys.
 

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Well, when I had this happen to me and friend once. It was 2-3 black girls and maybe like 1-2 black guys.
Maybe you look like a retard. (Not to say that there is anything funny about being retarded) Your statement was obviously a reflection of this.
 

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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't shoot the messenger (mahon). Different races behave in different ways folks! There are more geeky Whites and Negroes are naturally better with the women. Just stating the obvious here.
 

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I've had this once in a pub, where people mock you for no good reason. In this case it was because I was from the North of England and have an accent.

I did actually react to the guy in question, who then picked up a bottle and threatened to glass me in the face. I walked off. I hate to say it but sometimes it is not worth the trouble trying to argue back at these people (who are just doing it because they like the idea of finishing the night off with a good fight).
 

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First off, lets stop using the word negro. Little history lesson. It was a word used to describe blacks pre-civil rights movement.

Even though a lot of black people in the united states are not african decent, we get pushed into the african american group because people think this is the "politically correct" term for us. my roommate for instance is haitian american and we both have the same features.

personally i would like to be considered black. it's a word that is accepted by all of us no matter what our background is. i definately don't like to be called a negro and if someone was to say this directly to my face we would probably have a problem.

mahon... just because you were heckled by a group of blacks, doesn't mean that we all act the same way. that's just as stupid as me saying that all serial bombers/killers/rapists are white. maybe you looked funny to them. who knows? eitherway, don't put us all into a category because you were the joke of the day to a group of people who happened to be a certain race.

lastly, blacks are no better at picking up women than any other race. a good friend of mine is white and he's a lot better at picking up women than I am. I do alright for myself, but he is definately a few power points ahead of me when it comes to having game. it comes naturally to some and others have to work a little harder.
 

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kdnash82 said:
First off, lets stop using the word negro. Little history lesson. It was a word used to describe blacks pre-civil rights movement.

Even though a lot of black people in the united states are not african decent, we get pushed into the african american group because people think this is the "politically correct" term for us. my roommate for instance is haitian american and we both have the same features.

personally i would like to be considered black. it's a word that is accepted by all of us no matter what our background is. i definately don't like to be called a negro and if someone was to say this directly to my face we would probably have a problem.

mahon... just because you were heckled by a group of blacks, doesn't mean that we all act the same way. that's just as stupid as me saying that all serial bombers/killers/rapists are white. maybe you looked funny to them. who knows? eitherway, don't put us all into a category because you were the joke of the day to a group of people who happened to be a certain race.

lastly, blacks are no better at picking up women than any other race. a good friend of mine is white and he's a lot better at picking up women than I am. I do alright for myself, but he is definately a few power points ahead of me when it comes to having game. it comes naturally to some and others have to work a little harder.
Hey, I have no problem with black people, just n***ers. Alot of American blacks I have come across are ignorant. The ones from Africa, Haiti, England, etc, don't talk jive and they are cultured and educated.
 

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Mahon83050,

Since you brought up race - what are you? (I am going to take a WILD GUESS here..) WHITE?

Oh and help me understand, because I am little confused. What exactly is a
ni++ger? Please explain?

Are there a lot of these "ni++ger's" there in Jersey?

Please enlighten me and the rest of the So Suave community what exacty a ni++ger is.

P.S. I am not black, in case your wondering. Hence my confusion on what you think a ni++ger is.

-Eyedogg
 

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