"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What to do if a girl starts texting or using a phone in an approach?

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DJDeMarco

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What to do if a girl starts texting or using a phone in a cold approach?
I see this as a lack of interest and I just walk away. Seems like the alpha thing to do. Is there is any way around this?

This happens a lot to me. I'm either not attractive enough yet or they are taken. I'm from a small area, so I'm going to deal with approaching a lot of taken women anyways.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Could be a test or just disrespectful behavior. You could have just called her out on it.

Woman are less attracted to looks than you might think, don't let that thought make you believe it will hurt your chances too much. Because it hurts your chances the most if you show you are insecure about it. Woman are more attracted to personality traits than looks as in higher value and true confidence. Just get your looks to the best you can for you, take care of yourself work out. But then let it go and don't remain thinking negatively about it.
 
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LuckyStrike88 said:
Could be a test or just disrespectful behavior. You could have just called her out on it.

Woman are less attracted to looks than you might think, don't let that thought make you believe it will hurt your chances too much. Because it hurts your chances the most if you show you are insecure about it. Woman are more attracted to personality traits than looks as in higher value and true confidence. Just get your looks to the best you can for you, take care of yourself work out. But then let it go and don't remain thinking negatively about it.
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I lift weights 4-5 days a week and am on a plan from bodybuilding.com. I'm just now coming to the realization that it doesn't matter if people like or approve of me or not. I've also had a fear of being alone and losing which friends I have because of not having many friends or opportunities in the first place. Like if I am not on one day, I'll lose my peers. A couple years ago, I would talk to everyone of my customers because I wanted my town's acceptance and to improve my social skills. Bad idea.
Since I've acknowledged these flaws, I can rid myself of them and I'm pushing the insecurity, negativity, and anxiety out of my life.
I do approach these women with confidence and positivity. Though I've never been very successful with women.
 
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