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What to do if a girl starts texting or using a phone in an approach?

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What to do if a girl starts texting or using a phone in a cold approach?
I see this as a lack of interest and I just walk away. Seems like the alpha thing to do. Is there is any way around this?

This happens a lot to me. I'm either not attractive enough yet or they are taken. I'm from a small area, so I'm going to deal with approaching a lot of taken women anyways.
 

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Could be a test or just disrespectful behavior. You could have just called her out on it.

Woman are less attracted to looks than you might think, don't let that thought make you believe it will hurt your chances too much. Because it hurts your chances the most if you show you are insecure about it. Woman are more attracted to personality traits than looks as in higher value and true confidence. Just get your looks to the best you can for you, take care of yourself work out. But then let it go and don't remain thinking negatively about it.
 
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LuckyStrike88 said:
Could be a test or just disrespectful behavior. You could have just called her out on it.

Woman are less attracted to looks than you might think, don't let that thought make you believe it will hurt your chances too much. Because it hurts your chances the most if you show you are insecure about it. Woman are more attracted to personality traits than looks as in higher value and true confidence. Just get your looks to the best you can for you, take care of yourself work out. But then let it go and don't remain thinking negatively about it.
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I lift weights 4-5 days a week and am on a plan from bodybuilding.com. I'm just now coming to the realization that it doesn't matter if people like or approve of me or not. I've also had a fear of being alone and losing which friends I have because of not having many friends or opportunities in the first place. Like if I am not on one day, I'll lose my peers. A couple years ago, I would talk to everyone of my customers because I wanted my town's acceptance and to improve my social skills. Bad idea.
Since I've acknowledged these flaws, I can rid myself of them and I'm pushing the insecurity, negativity, and anxiety out of my life.
I do approach these women with confidence and positivity. Though I've never been very successful with women.
 
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