"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to do if a girl contacts you out of the blue?

chow

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Here's the backstory -

Started hanging out with her in the summer or so. After watching a movie one night, I got some play. Two weeks later, I got more play. I forgot and missed her b-day so I told her I'd make it up to her. I took her out and at the end of the night, she didn't even want to kiss me. I told her what's wrong and she said nothing? I got mad and left the car without saying bye to her. I made the wrong move but this was before I found out about this site.

After that incident, we didn't communicate for about 3 weeks or so. We met at a party but she was not interested in me. I told her I wanted to talk with her alone but she didn't want to. I played it cool this time and just tried to enjoy the party.

Then about 2 weeks later she texted me saying she got a new phone # and made me guess who she was. I guessed guys and girls name, intentionally leaving her name out(I had a hunch it was her). She replied by saying her "name". I asked when she was going to call and she called on a Friday. I didn't pick up and called her back on Monday and left a message. She didn't respond. I called her again a week later and still no response.

Fast forward to about 2 weeks ago and she sent me a message on myspace. She asked if I still wanted to be her friend and she missed hanging out with me. I replied by saying I didn't even know that we weren't any friends anymore and told her to call me when she wanted to hang out. Another mistake by me, I should've taken control.

She had another message asking me to go to one of her dance contest. I told her I might but I can't make any promises because I'm busy with work. The day came and she sent me another message, saying her friends will be there and I should go. I told her I can't make it because of work but told her to let me know how she did. A few days passed and she said she messed up and finished 2nd because she got nervous. I responded by saying "2nd is good. I guess..."

So what's my next move? Does it seem like I can still get some action from her?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Kev07

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Pretty complicated stuff, i'll leave the advice to someone more experienced, but i will say that
"Fast forward to about 2 weeks ago and she sent me a message on myspace. She asked if I still wanted to be her friend and she missed hanging out with me. I replied by saying I didn't even know that we weren't any friends anymore and told her to call me when she wanted to hang out. Another mistake by me, I should've taken control."

was not really a mistake, i dont know how to describe it, but don't worry about that part.
 

Thomas94305

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Seems the two of you are more into chase and drama than action
 
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