“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What to do if a girl contacts you out of the blue?

chow

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Here's the backstory -

Started hanging out with her in the summer or so. After watching a movie one night, I got some play. Two weeks later, I got more play. I forgot and missed her b-day so I told her I'd make it up to her. I took her out and at the end of the night, she didn't even want to kiss me. I told her what's wrong and she said nothing? I got mad and left the car without saying bye to her. I made the wrong move but this was before I found out about this site.

After that incident, we didn't communicate for about 3 weeks or so. We met at a party but she was not interested in me. I told her I wanted to talk with her alone but she didn't want to. I played it cool this time and just tried to enjoy the party.

Then about 2 weeks later she texted me saying she got a new phone # and made me guess who she was. I guessed guys and girls name, intentionally leaving her name out(I had a hunch it was her). She replied by saying her "name". I asked when she was going to call and she called on a Friday. I didn't pick up and called her back on Monday and left a message. She didn't respond. I called her again a week later and still no response.

Fast forward to about 2 weeks ago and she sent me a message on myspace. She asked if I still wanted to be her friend and she missed hanging out with me. I replied by saying I didn't even know that we weren't any friends anymore and told her to call me when she wanted to hang out. Another mistake by me, I should've taken control.

She had another message asking me to go to one of her dance contest. I told her I might but I can't make any promises because I'm busy with work. The day came and she sent me another message, saying her friends will be there and I should go. I told her I can't make it because of work but told her to let me know how she did. A few days passed and she said she messed up and finished 2nd because she got nervous. I responded by saying "2nd is good. I guess..."

So what's my next move? Does it seem like I can still get some action from her?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kev07

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Pretty complicated stuff, i'll leave the advice to someone more experienced, but i will say that
"Fast forward to about 2 weeks ago and she sent me a message on myspace. She asked if I still wanted to be her friend and she missed hanging out with me. I replied by saying I didn't even know that we weren't any friends anymore and told her to call me when she wanted to hang out. Another mistake by me, I should've taken control."

was not really a mistake, i dont know how to describe it, but don't worry about that part.
 

Thomas94305

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Seems the two of you are more into chase and drama than action
 
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