"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What to do here?
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Hi when you talk about this you look for attorney?? Handyman doesn't last too long. Europe is not worth it to live.
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Congratulations, u r the 3rd person here on SS who's given not only sound advice but also undeniable proof via online chat of ur ability to get women on dates.
As for the rest of the regulars who gives "advices" and "new age ideology" on a daily basis but have yet to even post a single proof of their abilities; you should be ashamed of hiding behind in every threads instead of facing it in real life as a man should.
Disgustingly pitiful.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Please tell me you're not including yourself in that 3.
I've seen those black fat women that you've taken a fancy, ain't my type.
Oh and I did multiple times when u were in banned mode xD
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Fat black women? Wtf are you talking about? I don't like black women nor fat women.
Btw, in @Epicurus 's post that you just congratulated him for... 2 of the 3 girls were black.
I logged in to this site every day while on ignore. I heard you claim that you once "shut me up" by posting pictures, but what really happened was that I had you on ignore.
R u denying that you'd ask me for prove and that I posted pictures of my dates with young women?
And r u also denying when some other posters asked the same of you, you posted pictures of a "thick" black lady that you've been communicating with?
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I have absolutely no clue what you're talking about. I paid a girl that I met on SA that I only had over because she worked at Winghouse. She was part black, and not thin, but not obese either. Is that what you mean?
I've never seen you post a picture of anything hot. You posted a picture of an average girl one time. That's all I remember.