"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What to do here?
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Hi when you talk about this you look for attorney?? Handyman doesn't last too long. Europe is not worth it to live.
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Congratulations, u r the 3rd person here on SS who's given not only sound advice but also undeniable proof via online chat of ur ability to get women on dates.
As for the rest of the regulars who gives "advices" and "new age ideology" on a daily basis but have yet to even post a single proof of their abilities; you should be ashamed of hiding behind in every threads instead of facing it in real life as a man should.
Disgustingly pitiful.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Please tell me you're not including yourself in that 3.
I've seen those black fat women that you've taken a fancy, ain't my type.
Oh and I did multiple times when u were in banned mode xD
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Fat black women? Wtf are you talking about? I don't like black women nor fat women.
Btw, in @Epicurus 's post that you just congratulated him for... 2 of the 3 girls were black.
I logged in to this site every day while on ignore. I heard you claim that you once "shut me up" by posting pictures, but what really happened was that I had you on ignore.
R u denying that you'd ask me for prove and that I posted pictures of my dates with young women?
And r u also denying when some other posters asked the same of you, you posted pictures of a "thick" black lady that you've been communicating with?
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I have absolutely no clue what you're talking about. I paid a girl that I met on SA that I only had over because she worked at Winghouse. She was part black, and not thin, but not obese either. Is that what you mean?
I've never seen you post a picture of anything hot. You posted a picture of an average girl one time. That's all I remember.