"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What to do here?
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Hi when you talk about this you look for attorney?? Handyman doesn't last too long. Europe is not worth it to live.
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Congratulations, u r the 3rd person here on SS who's given not only sound advice but also undeniable proof via online chat of ur ability to get women on dates.
As for the rest of the regulars who gives "advices" and "new age ideology" on a daily basis but have yet to even post a single proof of their abilities; you should be ashamed of hiding behind in every threads instead of facing it in real life as a man should.
Disgustingly pitiful.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Please tell me you're not including yourself in that 3.
I've seen those black fat women that you've taken a fancy, ain't my type.
Oh and I did multiple times when u were in banned mode xD
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Fat black women? Wtf are you talking about? I don't like black women nor fat women.
Btw, in @Epicurus 's post that you just congratulated him for... 2 of the 3 girls were black.
I logged in to this site every day while on ignore. I heard you claim that you once "shut me up" by posting pictures, but what really happened was that I had you on ignore.
R u denying that you'd ask me for prove and that I posted pictures of my dates with young women?
And r u also denying when some other posters asked the same of you, you posted pictures of a "thick" black lady that you've been communicating with?
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I have absolutely no clue what you're talking about. I paid a girl that I met on SA that I only had over because she worked at Winghouse. She was part black, and not thin, but not obese either. Is that what you mean?
I've never seen you post a picture of anything hot. You posted a picture of an average girl one time. That's all I remember.