"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What to do, girl has bf, but wants me

mtlwlu

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I recently came across an old friend at a club, and we had some drinks and danced together, and from that point on shes been texting me none stop and asking when we can hang out again (Im out of town for work) but she has a boyfriend, I know the guy but I wouldnt call him a friend. Ive never been one to steal a guys girl before but shes a solid 9, and has a sweet @$$. She tells me she enjoys my company, because her boyfriend is a wall flower at the clubs and still doesnt have his license (he's 22). Should I go for the kill?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Conquer

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YES!
1. Her boyfriend is a bum and she is not happy.
2. She won't dump him because she is insecure and wont leave till she knows she has someone to go to(you)
3. why not? lol
 

prairiedog24

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I have no problem with openly stealing a gf away. It'd better have a ring to be off limits. It's the sneaking around that gets sketchy. Just hang out with her a few times, and if things progress tell her she should dump him and be with you.
 

Kal0051

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Conquer said:
YES!
1. Her boyfriend is a bum and she is not happy.
2. She won't dump him because she is insecure and wont leave till she knows she has someone to go to(you)
3. why not? lol
I agree with everything up above, especially #2. Most girls are insecure, and can't be without a "boyfriend".
 

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mtlwlu said:
I recently came across an old friend at a club, and we had some drinks and danced together, and from that point on shes been texting me none stop and asking when we can hang out again (Im out of town for work) but she has a boyfriend, I know the guy but I wouldnt call him a friend. Ive never been one to steal a guys girl before but shes a solid 9, and has a sweet @$$. She tells me she enjoys my company, because her boyfriend is a wall flower at the clubs and still doesnt have his license (he's 22). Should I go for the kill?
Considering she's basically throwing herself at you then YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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