"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to do, girl has bf, but wants me

mtlwlu

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I recently came across an old friend at a club, and we had some drinks and danced together, and from that point on shes been texting me none stop and asking when we can hang out again (Im out of town for work) but she has a boyfriend, I know the guy but I wouldnt call him a friend. Ive never been one to steal a guys girl before but shes a solid 9, and has a sweet @$$. She tells me she enjoys my company, because her boyfriend is a wall flower at the clubs and still doesnt have his license (he's 22). Should I go for the kill?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Conquer

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YES!
1. Her boyfriend is a bum and she is not happy.
2. She won't dump him because she is insecure and wont leave till she knows she has someone to go to(you)
3. why not? lol
 

prairiedog24

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I have no problem with openly stealing a gf away. It'd better have a ring to be off limits. It's the sneaking around that gets sketchy. Just hang out with her a few times, and if things progress tell her she should dump him and be with you.
 

Kal0051

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Conquer said:
YES!
1. Her boyfriend is a bum and she is not happy.
2. She won't dump him because she is insecure and wont leave till she knows she has someone to go to(you)
3. why not? lol
I agree with everything up above, especially #2. Most girls are insecure, and can't be without a "boyfriend".
 

cletus

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mtlwlu said:
I recently came across an old friend at a club, and we had some drinks and danced together, and from that point on shes been texting me none stop and asking when we can hang out again (Im out of town for work) but she has a boyfriend, I know the guy but I wouldnt call him a friend. Ive never been one to steal a guys girl before but shes a solid 9, and has a sweet @$$. She tells me she enjoys my company, because her boyfriend is a wall flower at the clubs and still doesnt have his license (he's 22). Should I go for the kill?
Considering she's basically throwing herself at you then YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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