Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What to do during a sex scene in a movie!

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Say you're on a date....let's assume it's the first or second date. and you're at the movies.....and a sex scene comes up, or even a passionate kissing scene. What do you do?

Do you watch intently? Should you avoid all movement at all? and let's also assume that it's too early in the relationship to grab the girl and give her a big smooch while all of this is going on.

Kino maybe?

What do you think she'll do during the sex scene? watch? or watch what you do out of the corner of her eye? :D

thanks in advance!
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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-Ask her if she makes "that" sound whilst shes on top.
-Tell her you used to date the female role
-Tell her youve seen this scene before, but this time they've cut the 'chocolate sandwich' segment out
-Ask her if she thinks the girl is 'faking'
-Tell her youve got a much better one upstairs she'd enjoy on top of your Dad's cupboard
-Tell her youve got a much better one upstairs she'd enjoy with you and your -ex in.......
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nice mukester, but perhaps something a little more tasteful?
 

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Seriously bro- if i was gonna do anything, i'd make a lame joke out of it (see previous), and go for the humour. Say (looking at screen) "Jeeze her boobs sure wobble a lot dont they?!"

I think it would be corny to make a 'move' during a 'jazz scene'. There is a chance a scene might turn her on so you could exploit that fact soon after by going into kino... but not during- otherwise it'll be obvious to her what youre trying to do :rolleyes:

If youve seen the movie already and know when the scene is gonna occur, you might like to get close beforehand (kino moves etc)- maybe the scene will act asa bit of a catalyst and she'll be more receptive.

Good luck! :D
 

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Originally posted by numlock
nice mukester, but perhaps something a little more tasteful?
Dude that stuff is perfect. YOu are turning a akward, possibly uncomfortable situation into a light harted fun time. Don't say it ina cheesy way, you have to do it with a ceertain look. But mukesteris right on. :)
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Sex Scene at the movies

This happened to me. When the scene came up, I just said "Wow". I then waited for her reply. It led to a very nice discussion about relationships in general and just a little about sex. This over a drink after the movie. We still date every now and then and there are no particular problems between us. I was able to react to the scene without giving away any specific feelings on my part. Try it!
 

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Lean over and whisper, semi-serious but with a hint of playful humor in her ear, "does that turn you on."

Ha ha, peace
 

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When there’s a good kissing scene on, you can usually take advantage of it. I do it all the time when I invite girls over--girls that I haven’t yet kissed. It’s derived from the seduction concept of “show-and-tell”.

When you’re watching TV or a movie with a girl and a kissing scene comes on, say something about the kissing, preferably something that would easily lead into talking about how good you two can kiss. I play out similar scenarios to the following quite often:

Me: “Now that’s how you kiss!” [Here I put out some bait to work up a reaction from her. They’ll usually take it and say something to the fact]

Her: “That’s nothing special” [She’s now in the position of pursuer]

With more daring girls, they’ll usually follow with “I can kiss better than that!”

Me: “Oh yeah? Well what makes you such a good kisser?” [That line’s a classic]
Her: “I’m soft and sensual. I’m not a sloppy kisser” [You want to get them to try to qualify themselves to you somehow like she just did. It makes it easier for you]

Me: “Is that right? Why don’t you show me how good you are then.” [That’s the hook. The kiss usually comes immediately and sex usually follows]

It’s as simple as that. Quick and right to the point. Sometimes it isn’t this easy and you’ll have to work at it a bit harder. You can do this by teasing her about it. Here’s an effective way to handle a potential scenario such as that:

Her: <shakes her head>
Me: “So you’re not as good as you say you are”
Her: “No, I’m good. I just don’t think it’s the right time to kiss” [This is what we call anti-slut “resistance”. Take it for what it’s worth]

Me: “Well you were talking about how you’re such a good kisser and all. I like to hold people to their word when they brag about something” [the clincher]
Her: “Okay, I‘ll show you”

See it might take a bit more work but it’s usually worth it. If anything you get to do some good quality flirting while you’re at it.

-Jake Stevens
The Pickup Master
 
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i saw xmen 2 on friday and whenever somthing sexual came up in the previews or movie,my girlfriend would cover my eyes.thats how that goes. haha
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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chiz, your girl in 12 bro? come on.

if i was in a movie theater with a girl during a sex scene, i would simply look deep into her eyes, and go for it. She knows what i want, and she'll give it to me.;)
 

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Originally posted by numlock

Do you watch intently? Should you avoid all movement at all? and let's also assume that it's too early in the relationship to grab the girl and give her a big smooch while all of this is going on.
I stand up from the chair and yell in my loudest voice "I'm Cuuuuummmmmmmmiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnggggggggg"
 

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hahahahahahaaaaaaaa. lol!

and than you ask "hey, got a towel or can i use your dress?"
 

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Originally posted by PickupSkills
When there’s a good kissing scene on, you can usually take advantage of it. I do it all the time when I invite girls over--girls that I haven’t yet kissed. It’s derived from the seduction concept of “show-and-tell”.

When you’re watching TV or a movie with a girl and a kissing scene comes on, say something about the kissing, preferably something that would easily lead into talking about how good you two can kiss. I play out similar scenarios to the following quite often:

Me: “Now that’s how you kiss!” [Here I put out some bait to work up a reaction from her. They’ll usually take it and say something to the fact]

Her: “That’s nothing special” [She’s now in the position of pursuer]

With more daring girls, they’ll usually follow with “I can kiss better than that!”

Me: “Oh yeah? Well what makes you such a good kisser?” [That line’s a classic]
Her: “I’m soft and sensual. I’m not a sloppy kisser” [You want to get them to try to qualify themselves to you somehow like she just did. It makes it easier for you]

Me: “Is that right? Why don’t you show me how good you are then.” [That’s the hook. The kiss usually comes immediately and sex usually follows]

It’s as simple as that. Quick and right to the point. Sometimes it isn’t this easy and you’ll have to work at it a bit harder. You can do this by teasing her about it. Here’s an effective way to handle a potential scenario such as that:

Her: <shakes her head>
Me: “So you’re not as good as you say you are”
Her: “No, I’m good. I just don’t think it’s the right time to kiss” [This is what we call anti-slut “resistance”. Take it for what it’s worth]

Me: “Well you were talking about how you’re such a good kisser and all. I like to hold people to their word when they brag about something” [the clincher]
Her: “Okay, I‘ll show you”

See it might take a bit more work but it’s usually worth it. If anything you get to do some good quality flirting while you’re at it.

-Jake Stevens
The Pickup Master
GREAT POST! -Take notes!:D
 

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You shouldn't be going to movies on our 1st or second date.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pressing The blue button....
Bump!
 
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