"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
what to do during a movie?
- Thread starter toddC
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
During a movie, you watch it... DUH!
Of course I'm sure you know that
You'll want to fluff a little and kino a little before the movie, that way its not too awkward if you kino her during the movie.
Don't ask her if you can touch her, be sure of yourself, if you're feel that whatever you are doing is right then it's right, she has to enter your world.
I like to start by holding her hand and sort of massaging it. Like move your thumb in little circles on her palm. Eventually you can move your hand up on to the wrist, which is one of those subtle, unknown "erogenous" zones.
If she's receptive to the hand massage, I usually put my other hand on her thigh (another ignored erogenous area). Start about midway, and maybe inch it up. But not too much or it might creep her out a little.
I think that the key to doing this is to be confident. Dosn't look at her for approval after taking her hand or something. Jut keep watching the movie as if you aren't doing anything out of the ordinary.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
Learn from this.
Cut the crap, guys, the most direct way is the best. If she digs you, put your arm around her from the start. And it's all you from there.
intha_burbz
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Make a move, think of all that you can gain by making a move. What do you have to lose other than your virginity?
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
My question is this: how could you NOT put your arm around her and hold her during the movie??
Seriously, EVERY movie date I've been going on, whether in the theater, her house, my place, wherever!, my arm is around her within the first 15-20 minutes!
You gotta change your perception of what is "awkward." Think of it as totally natural...and guess what, it WILL be natural, both to YOU and HER.
I've never had a girl pull away from this.
Your right and now that I think of it, whenever I am out I always at some point in the night end up withmy arm around a girl because I do it naturally and in a playfully kinda way...how woudl this be any diffrent, thanks you actually put it in perspective for me lol
TheGotDamnHNiC
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grab her arm and put it around you and then make her lay out on the couch so that you're laying beside her. this way you have access to her entire body with both hands...just start rubbing her legs and stomack softly and ****...after a while, put your head on her tities a lil bit, and then move your hand there...don't grab them...just move it around her bra or some ****. if you can listen to her breathing, move your hands according to it...if she is breathing harder then go further, otherwise find another spot...after you have touched her tities and the inside of her theighs. grab her head and start kissing her on the lips...and bam it's on...
if she don't let me touch her titie on the first try, then ill just chill, hold her, and watch the movie. i don't even try again...she would have to call me for me to **** with her after that...i hate chasing women...
and yes, this **** will work on the first meeting with a b*tch if she is comfortable around you..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.