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what to do at the movies

Buick

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So yesterday I went on a 'group date' with some friends & we did some stuff & saw a movie. i think I did fairly well. I sat next tot his one girl who I want to go out with & I know she has some interest in me too.
So sitting next to her during the movie I kinda felt dumb because i didnt do much. I made some comments & she hit me (playfully) & stuff, but thats about it.
What do you guys do at the movies?
 

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  • Sit at the back and throw gummy bears at fat people.
  • Bring a mick of vodka in and get drunk/make a scene.
  • Poke fun at everybody around me.
  • Get bored and leave.
  • If the movie's good I'll watch it.

Don't make moves in a theater, especially in a group setting. Just go and have a good time, show her what a cool guy you are, not how much you like her. Remember, you're the prize...not her.
 

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heres the limit in a group setting:

hold her hand. whisper in her ear. raise the armrest between eachother so your sitting very close, legs touching.

try not to kiss.

basically, just limit your PDA when your out in a group. just imagine your friend doing that to his girl. you wouldnt get mad, but you will feel kinda strange seeing it right in front of you.
 

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Making a move at a movie theatre is WAY to predictable. And being predictable, as we all know, is probably one of the worst things you could be. The only time I would make a move is if the chick is my gf and I know she'll haul ass outta there once she gets to a certain point and just wants it. (Unfortunately with that girl I don't think we ever got through a full movie). ;-)
 

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Back when I used to do group dates at movies, I would either hold her hand or makeout if I'm isolated from the rest of the group.

Other than that, it really IS a cliche move.
 

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Holding hands is pretty standard. Just place your hand on hers, its easy. Dont overdo the hand holding.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thnaks for the help guys. Its making me feel less stupid about not doing anything lol.
Normaly we wouldnt do movies but her & her friend wante d to see a certain movie so it gave me an excuse to go out
Yeah i know i'm lame
As for not doing stuff when with a group, my friends (alsom wannabe pua's) and I have an agreement
Thanks again for the help
 

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Me, at the movies I go to a real boring movie and make out. I think it aint good to be in a real dark room, in the back.....just to sit with your girlfriend and enjoy a movie. You could do that by yourself! I the one in the back all over my girl at a boring movie. See how far you go, its an experience to grab and suck on her nipples and robbin her love box in the movies. Even when friends around....think about when yaw go to school, he's going to tell everybody and you could tell your kids in the future lol.
 
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