"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what to do at the movies

Buick

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So yesterday I went on a 'group date' with some friends & we did some stuff & saw a movie. i think I did fairly well. I sat next tot his one girl who I want to go out with & I know she has some interest in me too.
So sitting next to her during the movie I kinda felt dumb because i didnt do much. I made some comments & she hit me (playfully) & stuff, but thats about it.
What do you guys do at the movies?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BluEyes

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  • Sit at the back and throw gummy bears at fat people.
  • Bring a mick of vodka in and get drunk/make a scene.
  • Poke fun at everybody around me.
  • Get bored and leave.
  • If the movie's good I'll watch it.

Don't make moves in a theater, especially in a group setting. Just go and have a good time, show her what a cool guy you are, not how much you like her. Remember, you're the prize...not her.
 

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heres the limit in a group setting:

hold her hand. whisper in her ear. raise the armrest between eachother so your sitting very close, legs touching.

try not to kiss.

basically, just limit your PDA when your out in a group. just imagine your friend doing that to his girl. you wouldnt get mad, but you will feel kinda strange seeing it right in front of you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making a move at a movie theatre is WAY to predictable. And being predictable, as we all know, is probably one of the worst things you could be. The only time I would make a move is if the chick is my gf and I know she'll haul ass outta there once she gets to a certain point and just wants it. (Unfortunately with that girl I don't think we ever got through a full movie). ;-)
 

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Back when I used to do group dates at movies, I would either hold her hand or makeout if I'm isolated from the rest of the group.

Other than that, it really IS a cliche move.
 

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Holding hands is pretty standard. Just place your hand on hers, its easy. Dont overdo the hand holding.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Buick

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Thnaks for the help guys. Its making me feel less stupid about not doing anything lol.
Normaly we wouldnt do movies but her & her friend wante d to see a certain movie so it gave me an excuse to go out
Yeah i know i'm lame
As for not doing stuff when with a group, my friends (alsom wannabe pua's) and I have an agreement
Thanks again for the help
 

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Me, at the movies I go to a real boring movie and make out. I think it aint good to be in a real dark room, in the back.....just to sit with your girlfriend and enjoy a movie. You could do that by yourself! I the one in the back all over my girl at a boring movie. See how far you go, its an experience to grab and suck on her nipples and robbin her love box in the movies. Even when friends around....think about when yaw go to school, he's going to tell everybody and you could tell your kids in the future lol.
 
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