"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to do at home as spor on Ramadan?

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With the Carnivore diet, I lost 127 kilos to 117. However, since my blood tests showed abnormalities, I was told that I had to switch to a normal diet.

As Muslims, we fast during Ramadan and it is like IF for me. However, I cannot exercise without water. Even when I can eat, there is a line at the gym because it is very crowded.

What can I do at home during this period?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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With the Carnivore diet, I lost 127 kilos to 117. However, since my blood tests showed abnormalities, I was told that I had to switch to a normal diet.

As Muslims, we fast during Ramadan and it is like IF for me. However, I cannot exercise without water. Even when I can eat, there is a line at the gym because it is very crowded.

What can I do at home during this period?
Whoah…Im studying your faith.


I didn’t know you were muslim. Do you go solely for muslim women or also girls from different faiths?

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Whoah…Im studying your faith.


I didn’t know you were muslim. Do you go solely for muslim women or also girls from different faiths?

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As far as I know, according to Islam, there is a situation like this:
If you find a woman from another religion that is said to be sent by Allah, you can be with her (Jew or Christian). But if you are with someone who believes in other gods, you cannot marry her (atheist, deist...).
I live in Turkey and everyone I see around me is Muslim or atheist. But I haven't asked anyone about their religion yet. Besides, according to Islam, it is not nice to "hang out" with someone.

By the way, I don't claim to live the religion perfectly. But Ramadan has become one of our traditions now.

I don't know howyou guys say this in english but "Aleykum selam"
 

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That's easy...

Like Farrakhan reads his daily Quran,
It's a phenomenon,
Lyrics fast like Ramadan
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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As far as I know, according to Islam, there is a situation like this:
If you find a woman from another religion that is said to be sent by Allah, you can be with her (Jew or Christian). But if you are with someone who believes in other gods, you cannot marry her (atheist, deist...).
I live in Turkey and everyone I see around me is Muslim or atheist. But I haven't asked anyone about their religion yet. Besides, according to Islam, it is not nice to "hang out" with someone.

By the way, I don't claim to live the religion perfectly. But Ramadan has become one of our traditions now.

I don't know howyou guys say this in english but "Aleykum selam"
I hope you had a great Ramadan. You have a beautiful faith, stick with it, practice it as best as you can and you will be Successful and reap good things. I'm sure there's plenty of nice muslim girls in your area, you just gotta pray and work for it daily. Just live your life and set up opportunities in your life to meet some quality women like going to your Masjid or being involve in your community. Peace out brother.
 
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