"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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suaveplayer

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ok so yesterday i was grinding with this chick i knew at the high school dance. it was great, she was hot, and we had a good time. however, it was a little awkard at the end, where i made a funny comment and she laughed, and then i kinda just gave her a back pat and left to anotherpart of the floor. i guess i didnt hang around cuz i dont normally hang around with her group of friends.

i felt like it was an inadequate ending to a great dance. what should i have done?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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619joe

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If your not looking to number close,get her name,tell her you had a good time and youll talk with her later (use her name as often as you can) and tell give her a HUG.Yes a hug is the norm i do it all the time after grinding.

If you want the number,just say "Hey you seem like a cool girl,whats your number i might give you a call sometime so we can chill" something along those lines.
 
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I usually bow whilst stealthily tucking my boner into my waistband to avoid our mutual embarrassment....:D
 
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