"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What to do after grinding

suaveplayer

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ok so yesterday i was grinding with this chick i knew at the high school dance. it was great, she was hot, and we had a good time. however, it was a little awkard at the end, where i made a funny comment and she laughed, and then i kinda just gave her a back pat and left to anotherpart of the floor. i guess i didnt hang around cuz i dont normally hang around with her group of friends.

i felt like it was an inadequate ending to a great dance. what should i have done?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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619joe

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If your not looking to number close,get her name,tell her you had a good time and youll talk with her later (use her name as often as you can) and tell give her a HUG.Yes a hug is the norm i do it all the time after grinding.

If you want the number,just say "Hey you seem like a cool girl,whats your number i might give you a call sometime so we can chill" something along those lines.
 

02hero

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I usually bow whilst stealthily tucking my boner into my waistband to avoid our mutual embarrassment....:D
 
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