"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what to do after first date ?

AlexTheGreat

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Alright, say I kissed a girl I was into on the first date .... but that afterwards, I quickly lost interest. How do I put her down easily ? (she's 16, I'm 17)

We both go to the same school, so I can't just "not call her back"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Do chicks post questions about how to let a guy down? Nope. Why should you? :) They usually make some excuse of why the guy isn't right for her. You know she isn't right for you, or atleast that's what you said.

It was just a date..... it's not like your not backing out of a marriage the day before the wedding.
 

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"I don't see this going anywhere"
works fine for me
 

coolguy676767

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"I dont see this going anywhere but into bed, and I am fine with that if you are"

Obviously 1 of 2 things will happen, and its about a 90 percent chance it will be #1 but

1. she will slap you or say you are a idiot that doesnt deserve her and leave her alone.
2. she will try harder to be with you or she might just have sex with you almost immediately

So you are getting something out of the deal, either you get out of the relationship quickly or get something good. lol
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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Never talking to her again is my personal favorite let down. And then when they see you and they are all mad... act like nothing happened.

WHY DIDNT YOU CALL ME?!?!?!?!
-Hey!!! Whats up?
YOURE SUCH AN ASS
-Wow what are you talking about?
I HATE YOU
-Jeeze, settle down, what are you yelling about?

Hahaha, drives em nuts, totally worth the yelling.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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act like an AFC

or just stay with her until another comes your way
 

undesputable

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Originally posted by coolguy676767
"I dont see this going anywhere but into bed, and I am fine with that if you are"
thats not bad at all, if she was decent looking i would deffintly do this, just in case she does choose option #2.
 

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Read the bible: Anti-dumps machine.
 
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