"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what to do after first date ?

AlexTheGreat

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Alright, say I kissed a girl I was into on the first date .... but that afterwards, I quickly lost interest. How do I put her down easily ? (she's 16, I'm 17)

We both go to the same school, so I can't just "not call her back"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Do chicks post questions about how to let a guy down? Nope. Why should you? :) They usually make some excuse of why the guy isn't right for her. You know she isn't right for you, or atleast that's what you said.

It was just a date..... it's not like your not backing out of a marriage the day before the wedding.
 

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"I don't see this going anywhere"
works fine for me
 

coolguy676767

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"I dont see this going anywhere but into bed, and I am fine with that if you are"

Obviously 1 of 2 things will happen, and its about a 90 percent chance it will be #1 but

1. she will slap you or say you are a idiot that doesnt deserve her and leave her alone.
2. she will try harder to be with you or she might just have sex with you almost immediately

So you are getting something out of the deal, either you get out of the relationship quickly or get something good. lol
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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Never talking to her again is my personal favorite let down. And then when they see you and they are all mad... act like nothing happened.

WHY DIDNT YOU CALL ME?!?!?!?!
-Hey!!! Whats up?
YOURE SUCH AN ASS
-Wow what are you talking about?
I HATE YOU
-Jeeze, settle down, what are you yelling about?

Hahaha, drives em nuts, totally worth the yelling.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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act like an AFC

or just stay with her until another comes your way
 

undesputable

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Originally posted by coolguy676767
"I dont see this going anywhere but into bed, and I am fine with that if you are"
thats not bad at all, if she was decent looking i would deffintly do this, just in case she does choose option #2.
 

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Read the bible: Anti-dumps machine.
 
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