"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to do after all this?

Sasha

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Long story short.

1 meeting: Met a girl in a club, some dancing, kissing, got #, got to eat later (me, her, my friend, her friend) and thats it.
(Didn't call)

2 meeting: Met her at the same club some other time. Some dancing, kissing, got a burger later on (me, she, and her friend).. and she ask why I haven't called. I say I will next time.
(Didn't call)

3 time: I see her late one night with her friend and some dude. I don't approach. just send an mobile message saying "why you out so late", anyways we keep sending back and forth for like an hour or two and it stopps there.

A week later or two: I call her and ask her to come out, but she is busy. Of to BBQ with some friends or something. I say "maybe some other time and that I am of to summer hoolidays soon" and end it with that. (I kinda belive her about BBQ, cuz that day was hot and sunny and perfect for BBQ)

3 months later (now): Do I give her a call or not? I don't realy give a damn. Cute but thats it.

The reason I am asking this is not becouse I want to get togather with her but becouse I have no clue what is the right way to do in this situation. What do you guys think? What would you do? (I don't think I even have her # anymore) I'm just asking.



Sasha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You ask if you should call her or not. You also said you don't even have her number. You also say you have no clue on what to do.

My friend, this is not what a real man does. he does not fidget around wondering what to do.

This is a lost cause, go for another girl and not repeat the same stupid mistakes.
 

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I don't want her, I am asking in a hypotheoretical (or somthing) question. Let say I did have her number and I did want to get togather, should I then call her or not?


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3 months an no call - she will think you are an idiot if she remembers who you are...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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