"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to do about a girl who is far away?

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I met this girl the other night and she lives a few hours away. But she is a really cool girl and we have stuff in common like music tastes. She's too far away to see barely once a month though, and I don't know if I could hold her interest like that. What do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Every girl in Cali is far away!!!! If she is a catch then she probably has a lot of attention from dudes closer by - unless you made such a first impression that she would meet you half the way!!!

It is usually the older women who are desperate to find a mate who make the most sacrifices and travel long distances for the opportunity of a "chance" encounter!!!!
 

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What to make of this? I was just thinking about how she was rubbin up on every guy she was talkin to at the club. Of course nothing happened (Im pretty sure...) with those guys except one guy who was basically her "friend" but still got touchy feely with. And I think he was suppling her with beer too, buying her attention. She would still make a good time tho :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to make of this? I was just thinking about how she was rubbin up on every guy she was talkin to at the club.
What the hell do you think??? She is a hor!!!! Do you want her to put a penis in her mouth for you to believe????
 

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Focus on other areas. Even a LDR thats only a few hours away is still an LDR. If you want to play mind games with her for your ammusment then that's fine but i wouldn't get my hopes up about persuing anything productive with her. Also concider I'm "just friends" with a girl currently and we've had sex several times after going to a bar "as friends" with some guy who was interested in her sitting next to her...I didn't buy her beer though.

Summation if you can get an easy lay off minimal effort, then go for it. Otherwise it's a hobby and nothing more.
 

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Well she did say next time Im in town I should give her a call. I was trying to isolate her from the club to my car but I know I wasn't gaming hard enough. I missed a few prime chances for kino, mainly because I was **** tired from a long day and not enough to eat.

You really think she's fvckin the friend? I wouldn't deny it but then again I don't really care at this stage either.
 
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