"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What to do about a girl who is far away?

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I met this girl the other night and she lives a few hours away. But she is a really cool girl and we have stuff in common like music tastes. She's too far away to see barely once a month though, and I don't know if I could hold her interest like that. What do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Every girl in Cali is far away!!!! If she is a catch then she probably has a lot of attention from dudes closer by - unless you made such a first impression that she would meet you half the way!!!

It is usually the older women who are desperate to find a mate who make the most sacrifices and travel long distances for the opportunity of a "chance" encounter!!!!
 

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What to make of this? I was just thinking about how she was rubbin up on every guy she was talkin to at the club. Of course nothing happened (Im pretty sure...) with those guys except one guy who was basically her "friend" but still got touchy feely with. And I think he was suppling her with beer too, buying her attention. She would still make a good time tho :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to make of this? I was just thinking about how she was rubbin up on every guy she was talkin to at the club.
What the hell do you think??? She is a hor!!!! Do you want her to put a penis in her mouth for you to believe????
 

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Focus on other areas. Even a LDR thats only a few hours away is still an LDR. If you want to play mind games with her for your ammusment then that's fine but i wouldn't get my hopes up about persuing anything productive with her. Also concider I'm "just friends" with a girl currently and we've had sex several times after going to a bar "as friends" with some guy who was interested in her sitting next to her...I didn't buy her beer though.

Summation if you can get an easy lay off minimal effort, then go for it. Otherwise it's a hobby and nothing more.
 

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Well she did say next time Im in town I should give her a call. I was trying to isolate her from the club to my car but I know I wasn't gaming hard enough. I missed a few prime chances for kino, mainly because I was **** tired from a long day and not enough to eat.

You really think she's fvckin the friend? I wouldn't deny it but then again I don't really care at this stage either.
 
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