"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do about a girl who is far away?

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I met this girl the other night and she lives a few hours away. But she is a really cool girl and we have stuff in common like music tastes. She's too far away to see barely once a month though, and I don't know if I could hold her interest like that. What do you guys think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Every girl in Cali is far away!!!! If she is a catch then she probably has a lot of attention from dudes closer by - unless you made such a first impression that she would meet you half the way!!!

It is usually the older women who are desperate to find a mate who make the most sacrifices and travel long distances for the opportunity of a "chance" encounter!!!!
 

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What to make of this? I was just thinking about how she was rubbin up on every guy she was talkin to at the club. Of course nothing happened (Im pretty sure...) with those guys except one guy who was basically her "friend" but still got touchy feely with. And I think he was suppling her with beer too, buying her attention. She would still make a good time tho :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What to make of this? I was just thinking about how she was rubbin up on every guy she was talkin to at the club.
What the hell do you think??? She is a hor!!!! Do you want her to put a penis in her mouth for you to believe????
 

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Focus on other areas. Even a LDR thats only a few hours away is still an LDR. If you want to play mind games with her for your ammusment then that's fine but i wouldn't get my hopes up about persuing anything productive with her. Also concider I'm "just friends" with a girl currently and we've had sex several times after going to a bar "as friends" with some guy who was interested in her sitting next to her...I didn't buy her beer though.

Summation if you can get an easy lay off minimal effort, then go for it. Otherwise it's a hobby and nothing more.
 

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Well she did say next time Im in town I should give her a call. I was trying to isolate her from the club to my car but I know I wasn't gaming hard enough. I missed a few prime chances for kino, mainly because I was **** tired from a long day and not enough to eat.

You really think she's fvckin the friend? I wouldn't deny it but then again I don't really care at this stage either.
 
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